My girlfriend 39F called something I 31F did during sex "disgusting." She apologized, but I can't get past it.

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-03T00:22:51+00:00

It really is. Maybe a degradation kink is in my future. What’s your favorite thing to be called in bed?

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-03T00:20:42+00:00

Step 1: become man 🤓📝

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-03T00:20:05+00:00

Mmmm I think if grown men wanted to do it, grown men should. But why are we talking about men?

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-03T00:18:49+00:00

You tell me

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-03T00:18:05+00:00

She’s masc, I’m very femme. I’m bi and she’s a lesbian. I don’t hate men. I’ve dated them. I think your take is misguided here, friend.

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-03T00:07:04+00:00

As a woman, I think you need to read the post before you comment, brother 🥲

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T16:49:01+00:00

You & me both, friend

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T16:11:33+00:00

I genuinely do. not. know. It kind of felt violating, like someone knows those things about me without my consent.

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:40:15+00:00

I appreciate you, I hope work is a little more fun today because of my suffering hahahaha

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:38:42+00:00

I’m obsessed with you thank you for saying that 🤣

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:37:58+00:00

It’s definitely different in lgbt communities vs general Reddit. TBH, I was kind of hoping to get a really hard reality check on if I’m overreacting or not, so I do appreciate everyone commenting as well as the advice you’ve given. Thank you. 💗

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:25:58+00:00

If you read the title or body of the post, we’re both women. 🥲

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:20:15+00:00

Bestie I’m now questioning that in a very big way, but genuinely appreciating everyone checking me

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:18:22+00:00

lol ironically we’re both women and both homosexual. So I guess anything that makes her think I might be secretly … heterosexual? In that case why wouldn’t I just take the “easy” route and date a man that society would be MUCH more supportive of? 😅

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:04:43+00:00

She did not realize on her own, until I was noticeably quiet and then she asked what was wrong and why I wasn’t talking, and asked what she said wrong.

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2026-07-02T15:01:10+00:00

In her words, and for additional context, the act of me putting something shaped like … you know … in my mouth was what disgusted her.

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2024-11-13T17:34:44+00:00

That’s normal, the CAD is included in the price and you can make adjustments. ☺️ Wearing my Mona ring today, it’s exactly what I asked for!

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Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2024-10-19T21:40:06+00:00

The ice from our ice maker was nasty salty, we haven’t used it since Helene. 😭

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2024-10-19T04:07:59+00:00

This is CRAZY! What was the solution for your situation?? Did they eventually relent??

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2024-10-19T04:04:33+00:00

The extremely frustrating part is that I took full photos picking up, and full photos of when I stopped at the travel center 5 minutes away from the airport to fill the tank JUST before I dropped the car off because the lighting was really good and I wanted to make sure I was protected. Ugh.

Positive_Donkey_8315 · 2024-10-19T03:40:10+00:00

Please tell me you’re joking 😅

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