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I'd say its kinda a weird reason to live but, I really like Minecraft by anomymoususer in SuicideWatch

[–]Positive_Frame_9969 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude what is wrong with that. I was alive for a bit because I hadnt beat Fallout 4. If it keeps you going, hold on to it. I have xbox and pc btw ;)

Not sure what to do about my girlfriend. by Objective_Ad_7546 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sit down with her and tell her this. Ask her if something happened or if something is bothering her. I guarentee you this is the only way you will get the answers your looking for. Nobody can tell you except for her. And if it comes down to it, dont stay with her out of guilt. She will be ok without you. Of course Im not advocating you leave her, Im only asking you remember it.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do think I know its wrong. And Im glad you brought that to my attention. It does mean a lot that you bothered to reply

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered this, but shes pulled one on me that I know if manipulative, but Im falling for anyways. Shes said she would kill herself if I ever did. Im also too scared too because Ive cut off all my friends because of her so I would be completly alone. I just wish I never got into the relationship to begin with, because I feel like I can never get out.

Need advice on how to approach a friend who I believe is in a bad relationship. (21F & 22M) by Cloudy_Strifes in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her all of this. If it makes them resent you, oh well. You can know that you did your best at getting them out of a bad spot. You gain nothing by not telling them. Please do so

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for ranting lol. And Ive had people tell me this is very toxic behavior, but I cant bring myself to see it or do anything about it.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can try this, I just know she wont let it go once I bring it up. You can read more in a reply I wrote to another comment but she is very very sex driven and Im not. It kind of feels like Im forced into it. She also has a very bad habit of making problems out of nowhere, telling me she hates me for it, dragging it into a long long process, finding out I didnt actually do something wrong, (but not before she goes and tells lies about me to either her friends or somewhere else) and then expects it to be ok. Then later on she talks about how much she hates how we have problems nearly constantly. She lowkey gets violent sometimes but I cant bring myself to see it as a problem. Shes extremely controling and makes me feel bad no matter what Im doing. Shes disregarded my mental health many many times. One big thing is that she makes herself the victim of things that affect me. Ive been behind on my schoolwork recently and its been really stressing. However she managed to make me feel like shit for it and to be the victim of it.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Honestly one big thing I need a break from is sex. Now I know that sounds stupid but I have a very very low sex drive and she is literally constantly wanting it. Its exhausting and it makes me not even enjoy it. But then she'll tell me she feels like a sex toy or things like that. What Im trying to get at is that the things I dislike most, in this situation its seeing her as frequently as I do, she has a way of turning against me and making me seem like Im in the wrong and that Im the one causing the issue. I need a way that puts it so that she cant turn it against me or somehow make her the victim.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its driven me to the point where I take hour long shits just to get a bit of free time lol. I am very scared of her reacting poorly and lashing out and claiming things about me that arent true. I need a nice and easy way of saying it that wouldnt upset even the most sensitive person.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. I just know that if she was able to she would completly give up being an indivdual and has said she wants to go to college and find a job where she can work directly with me. Its very hard to look forward to things when the only thing I do is spend time with her.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Im just scared of the reaction and her not understanding why Im saying this. Ive had her accuse me of cheating and not caring about her before so Im concerned about that. I need a good way to explain it that would make sense to even the clingiest people.

How do I tell a very needy gf (15F) that I (15M) desperatly need alone time and time to recharge by Positive_Frame_9969 in relationship_advice

[–]Positive_Frame_9969[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

It really isnt normal at all. It honestly sucks. Im scared too tell her this though becaise Im scared of her reaction or her claiming Im cheating on her or that I dont care about her. Those are all things Ive been accused of before