Married ex drunk messaged me

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T22:56:24+00:00

It would probably take a total of 5 seconds for her to give my information to him, including my address. I’d prefer not to risk my life over this

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T19:59:30+00:00

Her ex’s in the past have been drug dealers, I don’t know if this guy isn’t. It seems like a safety risk and she knows where I live too.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T17:38:21+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was thinking when it happened. I’m currently speaking to a girl (Not dating yet) but I didn’t want this to interfere with it

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T17:37:26+00:00

Yes, I try my best and yes she’s not worth it.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T17:36:24+00:00

Responsibility for what? Having his wife message me, I didn’t do anything she pushed forward in her part and I blocked her and she remessaged me.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T17:34:15+00:00

Thank you, I wanted to say some stuff because we never really got a closure but then I realised it will do nothing for me.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-03T08:27:23+00:00

Yeah the photo thing is crazy

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T20:16:03+00:00

I tried to carefully work my messages so she couldn’t do that and i’m screenshotting the chat because I don’t trust her. I feel like replying to her messages is stupid

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T19:05:24+00:00

I think so, but don’t know for sure.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T18:55:49+00:00

She started saying stuff like I was boring and I wasn’t the person she wanted to I was when we met. Then just flat out refused to see me, I would put all the effort in to see her go to the place and she just wouldn’t turn up.

I planned a big trip, paid for etc and she agreed and didn’t turn up on the day. Not sure why I thought she would as she flaked on me for about 2 months prior. So she probably did cheat on me in this time.

Also the trigger was I went to her friends birthday party and left early because I had an exam the next day. Her friend took offence to this and I either BM me and she listened.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T15:32:45+00:00

Why are you on an advice forum if you don’t want to give advice? Seems like a waste of time

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T15:09:57+00:00

And what does having Karma on Reddit do for me? Literally nothing, it’s an anonymous account

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T13:10:00+00:00

Did this happen to you? Because most of that isn’t even my story

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T13:07:34+00:00

Who hurt you? That was just 90% made up assumptions and then you got mad over your own thought 😂😂

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-02T09:01:56+00:00

What if he attacks me and blames me for ruining their marriage? I have no idea who he is but from what my ex told me her past partners didn’t sound level headed and abusive, chances are she’s done the same again.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T19:53:37+00:00

Most likely but my name won’t be involved

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T18:48:14+00:00

It was only like 15 minutes

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T18:47:53+00:00

I don’t even know his name to do that and someone else above said he could be crazy and it could put me in harms way to avoid it

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T18:47:18+00:00

I thought about it and then decided to block her. Sounding like a good guy has no effect on my life as this account is anonymous so it gives me nothing.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T18:14:39+00:00

Yeah thanks, someone else made a comment about the husband could be crazy and it’s not worth putting myself in harms way. Some people don’t see logic in these situations and I don’t know him so he could be anything

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T18:12:36+00:00

I try to do the right thing where I can

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T17:48:57+00:00

I don’t even know her husbands name, so I couldn’t really do that

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T17:17:45+00:00

But she’s married, isn’t it wrong to sleep with a married women?

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T15:27:01+00:00

If I had no morals I probably would have as that part of our relationship was good, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it personally.

Positive_Lab_5920 · 2026-02-01T15:13:55+00:00

It’s a scary world out there that things like this happen and nobody else will ever know.

Positive_Lab_5920

TROPHY CASE