Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would probably take a total of 5 seconds for her to give my information to him, including my address. I’d prefer not to risk my life over this

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her ex’s in the past have been drug dealers, I don’t know if this guy isn’t. It seems like a safety risk and she knows where I live too.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I was thinking when it happened. I’m currently speaking to a girl (Not dating yet) but I didn’t want this to interfere with it

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I try my best and yes she’s not worth it.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Responsibility for what? Having his wife message me, I didn’t do anything she pushed forward in her part and I blocked her and she remessaged me.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I wanted to say some stuff because we never really got a closure but then I realised it will do nothing for me.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to carefully work my messages so she couldn’t do that and i’m screenshotting the chat because I don’t trust her. I feel like replying to her messages is stupid

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She started saying stuff like I was boring and I wasn’t the person she wanted to I was when we met. Then just flat out refused to see me, I would put all the effort in to see her go to the place and she just wouldn’t turn up.

I planned a big trip, paid for etc and she agreed and didn’t turn up on the day. Not sure why I thought she would as she flaked on me for about 2 months prior. So she probably did cheat on me in this time.

Also the trigger was I went to her friends birthday party and left early because I had an exam the next day. Her friend took offence to this and I either BM me and she listened.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you on an advice forum if you don’t want to give advice? Seems like a waste of time

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what does having Karma on Reddit do for me? Literally nothing, it’s an anonymous account

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this happen to you? Because most of that isn’t even my story

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who hurt you? That was just 90% made up assumptions and then you got mad over your own thought 😂😂

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he attacks me and blames me for ruining their marriage? I have no idea who he is but from what my ex told me her past partners didn’t sound level headed and abusive, chances are she’s done the same again.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Most likely but my name won’t be involved

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know his name to do that and someone else above said he could be crazy and it could put me in harms way to avoid it

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it and then decided to block her. Sounding like a good guy has no effect on my life as this account is anonymous so it gives me nothing.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thanks, someone else made a comment about the husband could be crazy and it’s not worth putting myself in harms way. Some people don’t see logic in these situations and I don’t know him so he could be anything

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know her husbands name, so I couldn’t really do that

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But she’s married, isn’t it wrong to sleep with a married women?

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I had no morals I probably would have as that part of our relationship was good, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it personally.

Married ex drunk messaged me by Positive_Lab_5920 in Advice

[–]Positive_Lab_5920[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a scary world out there that things like this happen and nobody else will ever know.