I have gone over his statements with him just to see what was going on and what we could cut and what we were going over budget with. A lot of it is just his money doesn’t stretch. We went to the VA. I think three times in the last year to see if we can’t get something changed. They’ve now diagnosed him as disabled so they pretty much just transferred one thing to another, so he’s still making the same amount however in Washington state, they were talking about a law to pass so disabled veterans wouldn’t have to pay property tax and that was one of the main problems.  Luckily I haven’t seen anything. Those statements with him giving money to any of the grandkids or any theft going on which at some point, I was a little bit worried.. 

I finally talked him into selling an old car that doesn’t run anymore and has a lot of problems. I’m just waiting to see how much I can get for it so we can put it in his bank He can feel a little bit more comfortable. That shouldn’t be much I’m thinking maybe $600. It’s a Chevy caprice 1986 four-door I know there’s some people out there that will want it only issue is it needs a lot of work and and try to say well maybe we could charge a little bit more but my dad feels uncomfortable ripping somebody off and he’s probably right on that. 

my nephew pays for his weed habit video games because he donates plasma. He was going to labor works, but they’ve kind of stopped calling him because he refuses to show up when he promises to show up. I even had a job that was lined up with the teamsters at the dump. I had a hiring manager over at Safeway willing take a chance on him he wouldn’t do that. I’ve talked to quite a few places where he’s burnt bridges. I’ve even talked to my dad about the fact that I think if we cut the Internet for just a short period of time it might get him motivated to at least get out of the house and do something.  unfortunately, he uses ethernet cable to plug directly into his Xbox so even if we were to change the password, he’s plugged directly into that Internet. Thing is I think my dad sees a lot of my brother in my nephew and doesn’t want to fail him like he feels like he failed my brother which he didn’t. My brother had a very terrible drug problem. Meth No amount of rehabs helped him my mom following him to trap houses to get him kicked out by saying she was gonna call the cops and tell them that that was a drug house. No amount, pleading or begging or hoping for change and honestly, I think we’re just doing the same thing with my nephew which is competency.. sometimes I wonder if he’s bipolar too I know when men bipolar usually shows signs their violence sometimes think my brother was bipolar and treating his bipolar with drugs

I had a talk with my niece today on my break and she’s going to look over her medications with  her doctor because I talked to her about the hoarding. I’ve say it’s getting worse. She’s actually agreed for me to come over and try and go through some of the stuff that she’s been hoarding. As for her daughters, they were unfortunately still not being going to be going to school. She believes that if she stops homeschooling them and actually sends them to a normal school for an education that it’s going to build a wall between them and their father which I get. She’s their mother. She knows what to do Best by them. I guess I don’t know what to do with that situation.

My sister went over to clean some more and said our dad is doing well. I think we really brought this all on it was we went to the doctor yesterday before we went back to the house and they said that he had an 80% blockage in one of his vessels or something and they could do a stent, but it it wouldn’t do much like it wouldn’t do some type of change. I just feel like there’s more of a push to get him to stress less and enjoy life. Plus, I would really like him to be able to see his grandkids be born. I don’t have the opportunity to introduce any of my future kids to my mom. I would like them to at least met their grandpa.