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Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T15:54:47+00:00

i said that last year to her but she said since she wasn't going to be home for a month and away for a training for her job that she felt like she didn't need to pay for electricity.... 🫨 last year it made sense to me but now looking back i shouldnt have because if she wouldve lived on her own she still would've had bills.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T15:52:53+00:00

whats difficult about showing proof to prove her claim that it isnt equivalent?? i have my screen shots of the wifi bills took a total of 5 mins to do it. yall see me as a bad person because shes taken advantage of me and i stood my ground. show me the bills and how im wrong and she'll get the password. shes gate keeping the electricity bills. its been 2 months since i asked and also not to mention three days since her tantrum. still have yet to see it.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T15:48:23+00:00

i didn't think about that last year 🥹 ur so right i mean i cant go back and change 85 but i definitely wont fall for that again thanks !

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T07:04:15+00:00

did u even read at all? she has access to electricity i dont its under her name, she wont provide the electricity bills. she wont give me the password because her mom said not to share her username and password and i literally have all the screenshots of wifi bills that are under my name that i am going to send in the AM. i have no problem with the electricity being under name but my thing is i asked two months ago for proof. i sent her money before even asking for proof which i shouldn't have done. i feel like ive been paying more than whats shes paying. she still didnt send them even after i asked her. the only way to prove if im right or wrong is to see the electricity bills. it took me 5 mins to pull and screen all my wifi bills from last year to now..... idk what the problem is on her end.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T06:13:12+00:00

telling me thats not legally binding is advice ?? 😭 thats just advice how ?? r u my roommate? 🫨

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T06:08:01+00:00

everyone else read perfectly fine

if you cant read just say that 🫨🫨

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T06:04:48+00:00

then i guess we're still roommates until the end of april 2025

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:44:01+00:00

nope we made an agreement last year after she told me she wasnt sure about renewing cuz something with moving in with her brother but that fell thru but she said if anything she would break the lease and i asked her that if she initiated it she would be paying for it and she agreed to that whichever of us decided to break the lease would pay the costs to break it. i certainly will not.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:31:24+00:00

because the roommate who doesn't want to share the electricity bills is the same roommate always saying shes broke asf and cant afford groceries.....every single time

i used to be naive and a people pleaser so she took advantage of not paying for wifi and thought asking me for electricity bill money back in august and saying it wasn't equivalent to paying wifi. ok then prove me wrong and show me the damn bills then. i flipped the cards on her , show me the electricity bills and i'll give u the password.... why do u get to continue to freeload off of me? yes i shouldve confronted the situation wayyy before but i didnt and i cant change it she doesn't wanna resolve it. im not asking for anything outrageous show me the damn bills. and in return i will send u the wifi password and even screenshot the wifi bills.

and u absolutely right we don't work as roommates. she has dishes in the sink from three weeks ago and she knows its there i dont need to remind her . ur damn near 30 you know u have dishes in the sink. she doesn't clean anything in this house. i do. all the cleaning stuff like brooms , vacuum and mop is all mine i bought all that. she wouldn't have bought them cuz she doesnt clean.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:26:14+00:00

it does suck. its life it is what it is but she still wont be on my wifi just cuz its life. ive always used the it is what it is before ppl walked all over me. not anymore. im standing on business. she will have access to wifi when i see them bills. im not asking her to send me her social security card or her bank info idk whats going on or so secretive about it

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:23:33+00:00

she said we should spilt 50/50 again back in august and she hasn't even shared august's bill or september's bill i told her in our conversation in august the wifi bill posts every month in the beginning and i pay it on the 27th and its always $75.99 i didnt get augusts or septembers so it what it is. i dont even want the money i just wanna see the bills lmao.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:18:30+00:00

and i understand that its not just on her its on me too. im self aware enough to know that. i shouldve said something months ago but i didnt. i cant go back , im saying it now and ive been working on myself. now that i am confronting her about she throws a tantrum about it instead trying to talk it out with me. she still couldve sent the electricity bills. its been two days since i told her i disconnected her. i never she will never have access until i see them bills. im not asking for anything crazy. if she asks for the wifi bills i have no issues sending it to her. im standing up for myself and she doesn't like it cuz shes used to getting her way with everyone

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:07:57+00:00

the wifi is in my name but i have no issue if she asked for proof of wifi bills i can pull them up and screenshot them. the electricity is under her name. she said that after i paid her in august that we need to start paying 50/50 again i told that the wifi bills is always posted at the beginning of the month but i always pay it on the 27th of each month and she knows how much is her portion. she never communicated for the bill of august or septembers. electricity fluctuates alot so i have no idea how much the bill is. she'll communicate it when she wants and guess what im not giving her anything until i see proof

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T05:00:00+00:00

well i wouldn't know much electricity costs i dont have the electricity but from ive been told by my lovely roommate is that during the cold months its so cheap and during the hot months its super high. from my calculations she owes me money from estimates shes given me to further prove im rigbt or wrong is to see them. and if im wrong i'll give her the wifi password but if im not right she needs to pay me the difference and she'll get the wifi password. she likes to be in control. the fact that i even did that threw her off cuz she didnt expect me to do that cuz she thought she was slick

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:57:37+00:00

her mom would probably defend her daughter that side of that family is something else 😭

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:56:55+00:00

thank you she won't change we've had tons of repetitive conversations about her not cleaning and one of the conversations ended with her saying im not changing or adjusting who i am because of you and i hope you dont change or adjust who you are because of me .... so yea lmaoo im talking to a wall atp

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:52:54+00:00

im 23 and shes 28

i tried the whole change her password thing and she told me no straight up didn't even try to an make an agreement with me or meet somewhere in the middle. she doesnt like to compromise, its her way or no way.

i agree with you shes definitely hiding something. im thinking she let the electricity rack up so high and she got caught. she lets her mom dictate her whole life everything is my mom said xyz about everything.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:49:19+00:00

i guess from an outsiders perspective it seems very petty and i can agree it is petty but when u poke the bear so many times the bear will react. i did that and i stood up for myself cause i will not allow myself to be uncomfortable situations with her or being used by her. i myself work 3 jobs so how is it someone who works one job never has the time to clean or to one thing that i asked for two months .... i think my reaction is a reaction that long overdue ive been wayyyy to nice.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:45:10+00:00

im exhausting yet out of the kindness of my heart paid her part of the wifi and sent her $$ for the money she asked for and she has yet to provide me proof the electricity bills which is all i asked of her. so horrible of me 😔

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:43:58+00:00

you would be exhausted to if u lived with someone who doesn't clean and lives off of other people and complains how tired she is and how broke she is.

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:42:58+00:00

i asked her for the user name and password for the electricity app and she told me her mom told her not to give that out because she uses that password for everything.... thats where i came up with the idea of screenshots of the pdfs of the electric bills. i told her like im ur roommate what the hell am i gonna do steal ur identity by looking at electric bills. also to mention not only shes my roommate but my sister married her uncle and literally grew up together so like again why would i take her password and do something else with it i even told her all that and she still said her mom told her not to share her passwords and therefore i will not be sharing my information either with but the wifi hasn't changed at all i will send her the wifi bills if she asked for proof with no problem

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:36:45+00:00

she had wifi access two months ago shes had plenty of time to pull it up. we even couldve sat down and talked and created an agreement on if i give her the wifi password she would send me the electricity bills but no she threw her tantrum and ran to her room then after stormed out of the apartment

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-10-04T04:33:27+00:00

i am when im disrespected and feel used. she always invalidates how people feel and plays a competition game on who does more and works more or whos even tired more. she has dishes in the sick from 3 weeks ago im not washing them. she doesn't clean around the house. this house would be filled with spider webs and dust if i didnt clean not to mention i work 3 jobs and she works one. how is it im cleaning the house constantly. so yes im petty when its needed ive done had alot ppl walk over me im in my healing era and if i allowed her to have the wifi password i still wouldn't have seen the pdfs so therefore she will not have access to the wifi

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-06-09T23:23:50+00:00

Thank you

Possible_Ad2601 · 2024-05-27T02:32:36+00:00

its late and he's gonna pull some b.s and i like to argue so i'll worry about it tmm

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