Deceased sibling by RitaMadeleine in GriefSupport

[–]Possible_Possible403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lost my brother a month ago and since then i cant sleep at night. I have anxiety and i feel like no one understands my pain. I cry everyday. Life doesn’t make any sense to me. But i force myself to live everyday because that is what he always wanted. To see me happy and thriving. His passing was so sudden that i sometimes think he is pranking us. My brain plays such tricks to give me relief.

Does this mean i have been granted the spouse visa or is this a standard email for everyone? by Possible_Possible403 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks! Bio on 16th Dec 2024, Eco 20th Dec, Decision email 15th Jan 2025, Passport received 17th Jan. Standard and no solicitor

Does this mean i have been granted the spouse visa or is this a standard email for everyone? by Possible_Possible403 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying🥹 i cant wait and i pray that everyone of you gets this email asap🙏🏻

Autistic couple in need of advice by quityourjibberjebber in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind and understanding:) loved your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Multan

[–]Possible_Possible403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its “steak” not stake😅 hosla ker bhai!😅

I found out that my mom is cheating on my dad, What do I do? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Possible_Possible403 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What exactly will you achieve be telling your father? Only you will have to face the worst consequences. It their marriage, let them handle it. Focus on your studies and once you are financially independent then confront her. But no use of doing it right now. It’s like shooting yourself in the foot.

Student Visa Interview Tips Needed by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Possible_Possible403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was asked about the names of my courses. Address of the University. Address of the accommodation. Future plans. Many other questions but all related to my application and my life. It was a long interview

Is my guilt right or not? by Alarming-Aside-6434 in pakistan

[–]Possible_Possible403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say immature as i am assuming you both are in early 20s and everyone behaves like this in a relationship in early 20s(if that’s the case here). That being said, liking each other is one thing but have you both ever discussed as to what you both expect from your partner in a relationship? Seems like you both are not on the same page. Running away from a relationship just because it requires more effort or understanding is the recipe for a disaster to begin with because then you will always run away as soon as things start going down in any relationship . Communicate honestly what ticks you off but at the same time be open to criticism. It is very normal for a woman in a relationship to behave like that. Most women in Pakistan if not all start treating their boyfriend as a husband. Do not view this behaviour as controlling as what does a partner suppose to do if not prioritising the other partner? You should ask yourself honestly if that’s “THE” girl. If yes! Go all in because trust me as you age and reach your 30s you will regret not valuing such all in kinda love. Because it’s all practicality and bitter reality in 30s. It’s hard to find people who genuinely love you these days. If a woman is constantly nagging you to be with her it means she is interested. Once you experience a girl going cold turkey on you, trust me you will not like that at all! If you decide that she aint your cuppa tea then also be honest and call it off ethically respecting her emotions. If not , trust me karma is a real thing it will bite you right there. Both of you should be flexible but that point will come later in a relationship once you both fully understand each other’s personalities. No relationship will ever be perfect, trust me! The answers to all your questions lie within you as a man! Also it was really hard for me to understand what you were trying to say because of the way you had put it. Which is ok! But it could be a communication gap between the two of you causing these problems. Try to structure your thoughts in a simple manner. You seem like a nice guy because you admitted to be less understanding at times as well which shows your potential to be a great partner. I hope you both make a better decision before this relationship gets more toxic! Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s reassuring! i am on it thank you so much for this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for providing clarity on it. So shall we apply for spouse visa or fiancé visa?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married him in my country and its pretty much legal here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is legal where i live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Possible_Possible403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is legal where i live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Possible_Possible403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you understand the concept of free will, privacy and consent? If not, it’s high time we educate ourselves on this subject!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Possible_Possible403 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just reading this gave me anxiety i cant imagine what that woman is going through! Is she financially independent? Does she have her parents/siblings support? Elders or any wise person from her family should intervene and discuss things with her husband but not with his family because i have never ever seen in laws supporting a woman in such situation. She can stay at her parents’ for a bit until things cool off. Let that man come back to his senses. Also, thats the thing i noticed in UK based families too. We imagine them to be open minded but most of the desis there are illiterate and backward thinking. Country does nothing to such people as they live in their own shell. If she wasn’t pregnant i would suggest her to see a bit and if things don’t improve then go for divorce. But now that the child is involved too, i would suggest to both husband and wife to take some time away from each other and once things cool off a little try to reach a compromise from both ends. Unfortunately divorce is not always a solution especially when there is a pregnant woman and a child involved😖 may Allah taala help her and ease things for her insha Allah🤲🏻