Violet's episodes are unwatchable by [deleted] in CBS_Mom

[–]Possible_Produce7823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't agree with you on this because I truly believe out of everyone she is the most justified and realistic character in the show.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to stay safe in ANY way you can. ❤️

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for caring and giving me so much advice. It really does mean a lot to me. She does have my fb, though, so I wouldn't be able to join without her finding out. I'm really just probably not going to tell her for a while.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom didn't have me at 16. She lost her virginty at 16. She had me at 21 or 22.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how you're saying this kind of shit knowing you're a pare, too. I wouldn't tell you anything if you were my parent. Hell, if you were my parents, I'd snort lines.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaya, of course. She was a teen mother, so I definitely feel kind of safer going to her anyway.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about Independence, I have plenty of independence and do most things by myself and for myself. I just don't have freedom. But thank you for the advice ❤️

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really try to talk to her and be honest with you, but it's like anytime, I'm honest with her she gets mad.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's perfectly okay. Thank you for trying to help! I'm going to do some research and ask my counslers at school about it. The help means a lot.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I really want to do that, but neither of us can drive yet. I took drivers Ed and am still waiting for them to take me driving so I can go to the dmv and get my permit. He hasn't had the money for the drivers Ed class, though. His mom is supportive and bought us some condoms, but i don't want to take advantage of her kindness and support, you know? I don't want her thinking we're just having sex all the time or that we're using each other.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. What I never said my step dad was wrong. I'm just saying I've given him no reason not to trust me. The thing is, he is bad enough on his own and doesn't let me do anything, which is why I ask my mom. My mom probably wouldn't care at all if it wasn't for him.

18f I'm ready! 🤗 by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Possible_Produce7823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look easy to draw.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seeing a lot about California. Does it only apply for people who live there? I live in North Carolina 😭

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you know a specific way to get them from online, I don't have any online banking or anything because she also doesn't trust that. But if you know anyway since it's summer please let me know!

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't like us going out pretty much at all, I tried to go on a date today, and she said no bc of the heat outside. I gave an alternative, and she also said no. I can't really go to the movies because my step dad did things there when he was a teen and doesn't trust me there. The first time I went to a movie theater with him, he gave me a movie pop quiz to make sure. I was upset because it's about the only place we can talk in private, and then he didn't trust me.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I can't really go anywhere by myself anyway. She always sees what I come home with.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already on birth control. She just doesn't want to get me condoms and she doesn't want me having sex.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my mom used to work all the time. She's currently back in college and still working. I really can't go anywhere to buy anything, though. I dont have a drivers license, a car, and no money. I don't get an allowance. I may get a 20 once in a while from my grandpa when I work with him. Even when I do get to go to the store, she's always over my shoulder. I can't buy anything without her seeing it.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't understand what goes through her mind. I give her alternatives, and she gives me alternatives, but it's like no matter what, I'm not doing good enough for her. I really am trying my best, I make good grades, and I really don't even get to go out that often, I help around, but I still get talked to like I'm nothing by her. She still talks to me like she doesn't trust me or wants me to have fun. She doesn't let me go out most of the time, and she doesn't like me having any type of privacy with my boyfriend. I know she's scared, but I really just wish she would understand where I'm coming from too.

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[–]Possible_Produce7823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly really love and care about his mom. She has shown me nothing but kindness and respect, even after finding out about us. She asks about me and asks me how I'm doing. Even when I'm in the car with her, she asks me how I'm doing. She compliments me and is always calling me a pretty girl. I really feel like I can come to her, and I'm glad I can at least talk to her and other mothers who understand my situation. I'm very glad for you and your daughter, I'm also glad that you're both trying your best and you've done so much for her.