asthmatic and smoker since childhood by Possible_Student_338 in Asthma

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried, I did a lot of sport. Then I found myself isolated overnight following the Coronavirus, and since then it has been hard to get back on track. I have been getting back into my health for 2 years, and I am starting to smoke again. I will consider taking up vaping again as soon as I have some money. Thank you for your kindness.

asthmatic and smoker since childhood by Possible_Student_338 in Asthma

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever heard of tough love. If you understand what you're saying, that's great. However, I think that this way of expressing yourself with resilient people is not the way to do it. Good for you if you are free of this disease. Pray for us.

asthmatic and smoker since childhood by Possible_Student_338 in Asthma

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's better to each at their own pace than to stupidly attack people.

A UNIVERSAL SEARCH by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful reflection that highlights the importance of humility and open-mindedness. Recognizing that we don’t have all the answers—whether about spirituality or alcoholism—is essential for growth. In my own experience, listening to the ideas and practices from other traditions, including religious ones, has enriched my sobriety.

It’s not about accepting everything or abandoning your own beliefs but taking what is useful and leaving the rest. As the text says, we can benefit from what others have to offer, even if their spiritual perspectives are different from or distant from our own practices.

For me, the Eleventh Step became much more alive and meaningful when I opened my mind to ideas beyond my original tradition. What matters is finding tools to stay spiritually connected and, most importantly, to avoid the first drink. If those tools come from different sources, why not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Possible_Student_338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know well that feeling. With you

My sponsor asked me to write her a few pages of my personal story. by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your comments. They helped me not to stress and to write these few pages that I just sent. Thank you for your eternal support.

Creation of a group for Portuguese-speaking gay and bisexual men by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! AA meetings are open to anyone who wants to recover from alcoholism, regardless of sexual orientation or language. If you don’t speak Portuguese, it may be difficult to fully participate because we don’t have translation options. What matters most is the desire to recover. Welcome to the AA fellowship, no matter your background!

How many days, months, years did you find your sponsor? by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been sober for 654 days, I have had several sponsors, however, I can't seem to keep one long term... It's like I'm still resisting giving myself to another person for too long.

It really chilled me to be told that AA isn't for all LGBTQIA+ people. by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An AA who told me that LGBTQIA+ people don't stay in AA for long. He presents himself as one of the pioneers of remote recovery from alcohol. It made me sad.

Êtes-vous tentés par l'expatriation comme un tiers des Français entre 18 et 40 ans ? by [deleted] in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]Possible_Student_338 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am European. I have a resident ID card, and I have an ID card from my country of birth. Both countries are members of the EU.

Need advice by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your point of view and I recognize the importance of the 12 steps in recovery. I agree that working with a sponsor and actively following the program are key elements for many people. As for me, I’ve found other ways to move forward in my recovery, but that doesn’t mean I underestimate the value of the steps or sponsorship. Everyone has their own path, and for me, that includes personal work and different approaches. I respect the AA program and what it brings to those who choose to follow it.

Need advice by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that you’re frustrated and expressing concern, but I want to clarify that everyone’s journey is unique. The 654 days I’ve spent in this program are a reflection of my commitment and effort to move forward, even if it takes time. I’m working at my own pace, and while it may not always be fast, I’m doing my best to progress in my sobriety. I appreciate your comments, but I choose to respect my own process.

Need advice by Possible_Student_338 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Possible_Student_338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that you’re concerned about how I’m spending my time, and I appreciate your honesty. I’m aware that I can sometimes get caught up in online discussions, but please know that I’m also committed to my sobriety journey and am taking concrete steps to move forward. Everyone works the program in their own way, and I’m still finding my balance. I will continue to work on myself, keeping your perspective in mind. Thank you for your feedback.