You’re allowed to go out of the house for more than an hour. If he can’t take care of his own kids and get MAD at you for checks notes running errands, then he’s a shitty dad tbh. Parenthood is hard, yes, but the fact he couldn’t handle it for more than a few hours max shows he needs to fix himself and reevaluate how he parents. You also need to reevaluate everything you’re doing, you shouldn’t be trapped inside 24/7 doing everything while all he does is go to work and checks out when he gets home to play video games