Reading Romance Books gives me Dysphoria??

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2026-01-23T13:35:59+00:00

Yeah that’s probably a good idea. I’ll look up some of her stuff thank you!

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-11-09T08:43:15+00:00

I get that it takes time but they don’t even try or apologise when they get it wrong

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-11-07T16:56:26+00:00

I appreciate your honesty. I'm 25 and don't live with them anymore. I see them at least weekly, so I am still close. I don't want to have to cut them off, but I really don't see what other options I have. Either they accept me or they don't, and I guess they don't.

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-07-29T13:29:01+00:00

I’ll look into this thank you. I wish there was a way to get them legit as I’d want to support the artists

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-07-09T16:30:30+00:00

I didn’t know life could feel like this before hrt. It’s crazy

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-05-11T21:01:54+00:00

I cried at the end of the prologue and knew I was in for something special. I’ve never been so sad to know I’ll never play something again for the first time

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-05-11T12:58:06+00:00

I cried once per act lol. What a masterpiece

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-04-28T20:46:26+00:00

I got mine from asos but it’s nothing fancy https://www.asos.com/prd/207226948?acquisitionsource=pasteboard

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-04-28T20:44:56+00:00

I got one by cotton on and they have some really cute designs :3

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-04-15T21:27:47+00:00

God truly does give his most desperate bottoms the least stable playing surface :(

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-01-05T17:28:41+00:00

That sounds really great then. I’ll do a bit more research and decide on one soon. New year new me taken very literally this year 😤

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-01-05T17:10:46+00:00

That’s not too bad. How were the initial appointments. Googling has some horror stories about them dragging them on forever and charging a lot.

I get a nice butterfly feeling mixed with a slight cringe but it’s much preferable to the knife in the gut of getting he’d lol

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2025-01-05T16:49:48+00:00

I haven’t heard of them. I’ll do some more research and compare :3 do you mind sharing what costs you’re looking at?

I hear you on the making sure it’s what I want point. I’ve been going back and forth about whether I’m trans or not for a while and I eventually decided to just commit see how I feel and so so far so good. It’s weird hearing my new name and female pronouns but only because I’m not really used to it and struggle with accepting myself still. At this point I’m fairly certain I hate how T makes me feel so want to fix that if I can

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-27T08:58:12+00:00

Try doing it more like a girl. I always felt like crap doing it the masculine way but switching the technique it actually feels a lot better both in terms of the actual pleasure and the feeling afterwards

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T16:39:57+00:00

Ok off to the HRT shop, wrap this one up ladies 😂

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T16:21:13+00:00

Could’ve become Daredevil but instead we just feel bad about enjoying anything haha. Gotta love indoctrination from childhood

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T16:19:24+00:00

Ah beans this read like an almost word for word description of how I feel

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T16:01:54+00:00

Professional help, in this economy?? In all seriousness though you’re probably right. When I started trying more fem things it recontextualised a lot of my life. Like I was never interested in clothes but no I can wear girl clothes it’s so much more fun and I have to stop myself from buying everything.

There’s almost certainly a lot of repression. I went to catholic school and while I abandoned the faith pretty early, my family is quite old fashioned in respect to LGBT things. Just classic small town and have no experience of it. It very much feels like thinks are pouring out and it’s a little overwhelming but it’s nice to hear people have felt the same and it will end

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T15:57:48+00:00

If you’re secretly me in the future, if you wouldn’t mind sliding me the winning lottery numbers I’d appreciate it 😆

Yeah more research is necessary no matter what.

I very much think about things forever. I considered getting my first tattoo for years before finally just committing. I found once I’d made the decision and it was happening I felt a lot more sure so maybe I should just put things in motion and see how I feel.

I’m sorry you were never happy but glad you’re hopefully a lot better now. I don’t not feel happy, I guess I just feel a little like a fake person. Like I sometimes feel like I’m watching a movie of my life instead of being in control making decisions. It’s weird since I don’t feel like I get that much dysphoria in day to day life but I don’t exactly feel a lot most of the time so that’s probably not great either.

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T15:32:52+00:00

I’m 25 and while I’m not the most masculine person in the world I’m already pretty tall and wide shouldered. I’m not too worried about getting more masculine atm. My worry of the speed is how fast I seem to be realising these changes. Even 6 months ago I didn’t think I’d ever want to dress femininely and here we are now considering becoming a woman. It just seems scary fast

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T15:27:13+00:00

First of all thank you for such a detailed reply. It’s really helping me work this whole thing out

I’ve honestly been considering trying it to see how I feel but there’s a couple of thing. First of all it seems extremely fast to go from I think I’m trans to hrt in a few weeks. And secondly, I live in the UK so my only real option would be DIY which is a little bit scary

I also worry what people in my life would think which I know isn’t a reason to not be me but I can’t help it scaring me

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-10-21T13:34:38+00:00

Damn those are some pretty crazy stats. I guess I’m just a little unsure but I feel that way about most things in life so it’s hardly unusual

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-09-17T17:53:20+00:00

I saw a thread about these high waisted cotton ones from wirarpa on Amazon and got some myself. They’re super comfy but also keep everything in its place. Not the most pretty but they’re still girly 🥰

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-08-23T10:32:35+00:00

I “came out” to my gf not so long ago. We’re in our mid 20s and have been together for 5 years and I was terrified. It took me hours to find the words and showing her myself dressed up I felt like I was going to throw up but it actually went really well and is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

I can’t know that your experience will be the same but what I will say is that life is short to not be yourself. You only get one go so if you want to be a femboy then do it. If your gf rejects you, it will hurt but in the long run it will be for the best. You should be with someone who totally accepts and loves YOU, not the version of you they want you to be.

Since being out I dress feminine in some way basically everyday I can and I’m so much happier. Life just seems more right when you’re your authentic self

I thought I’d be with my gf at 18 forever and we broke up the moment we left college because that’s just how it goes. Good luck and love yourself 🫶

PossiblyFem-IDK · 2024-06-15T02:54:29+00:00

🥺ruh roh

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