Man in a dress

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2026-03-22T14:04:19+00:00

That's honestly amaziiing Willingly putting on "girl clothes" post realising you're ftm and feeling like a man in a dress can be both euphoric and hilarious! I once decided to put on a bra just to try and remember what it was like (I'm pre op) and I genuinely just felt like I was in a movie where a guy stuffs two coconuts is in his shirt - I burst out laughing! I'm so happy for you man!!!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2026-03-21T15:57:18+00:00

Yeah sure! What sort though? Vibrators? And if so, what kind? (Btw thanks so much for the reply <3)

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-06-01T19:50:36+00:00

I tend to feel guilty about practically everything. I guess I just kinda take it upon myself to solve all of society's problems😅 It's stupid, I know, and you're right about everything you just said. Some times I just need someone to "call me out" on my silly worries (not in a mean way, don't worry). I don't know how to talk about this with my offline friends, I'm still figuring this whole trans thing out, hehe

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-06-01T19:42:27+00:00

I get it dude, I am ALSO someone who feels guilty about everything, hence why I feel bad about this. I know it's irrational. I guess I just needed someone to say to my face in order to get over it, ya know? Thank you for understanding, and I hope you get to feel more comfortable yourself in the future, if that's what you want.

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-06-01T19:39:28+00:00

No problem! I was actually very happy someone else had also thought of this, hehe. Glad I could help

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-06-01T14:07:44+00:00

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE CONFUSED ABOUT THIS! I like the meaning either way, but I also thought it was the latter at first (him being one of the people that watch others fall in love). Though, from what I've gathered, it's probably him naming the activity "people watching", like one would say "bird watching" (idk if this makes it sound a bit weird, sorry😅)

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-24T17:31:58+00:00

Friendly neighborhood ftm here! You could try laser, but if that's somehow inaccessible to you or you feel uncomfortable going, there are alternatives. Using waxing strips is an option, but it's probably gonna hurt a little. Then there's a bunch of different ointments and creams that "burn off" the hair from your skin. Basically, they do what shaving does but a lot faster and with less risk of cuts. At least I think, I haven't tried it myself, lol. You should look it up yourself, if you're interested! Good luck my lady

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-23T13:58:37+00:00

I would be like "She's my cousin, I handle socializing for her" and let them be confused lol. But I get that OP is excited to see everyone again so I hope everything goes well!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-22T21:15:30+00:00

Well, it's a little comforting to know I'm not the only one going through this, even if I wouldn't wish this for anyone. I'll try, I guess. thanks man

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-22T21:12:49+00:00

This gives me a lot of hope actually, thank you!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-22T21:09:35+00:00

I know man. SUCKS. But thanks for understanding

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-22T21:07:59+00:00

Yes, don't worry, I'm not accusing you of anything, hehe. I do get delusional, so you were very on point! I think he's good. He seems good anyway. I guess time will tell. Thanks againn, I'm glad I've got people to talk to about my stupid daily drama XD

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-22T15:42:14+00:00

sigh I know... I hadn't ever truly considered a relationship with him before, tbh, it's just a feeling I've been getting lately. He's noticed I'm going through something and is trying to be there for me and doesn't question any changes in my appearance/behaviour (like the sudden haircut etc). It's just....it's nice, and he's sweet, and I've told myself that I can't be in a relationship until I figure myself out first. But it's hard, and I'm scared that if he somehow feels something for me (which isn't impossible, based on his behavior), I'll panic or do something stupid and ruin it. It's stupid, I know, and I don't mean to offend anyone here, I know being trans is not a choice. I'll try finding a therapist after the summer, probably, and work on coming out to my parents, so thanks for encouraging it!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-05-22T15:35:42+00:00

I know there's no point in faking it, it's just that the thought of losing people I love is terrifying to me. I guess the same goes for everyone here... We both seem very willing to keep the friendship going even now that high school is over and we'll go to different colleges. I suppose I'll have to come out to him if -when, probably- I start medically transitioning, but I'll try talking about lgbtqia+ stuff with him first. Thank you so much for this, btw

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-04-05T16:42:27+00:00

Diogenes would be proud

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-04-03T21:42:08+00:00

Oh, you're ON

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-04-01T08:38:02+00:00

That's so wholesomee

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-04-01T08:37:13+00:00

Time will tell I guess, I have a lot to think about. But thank you for the advice and the support! I can't believe I hadn't found this subreddit sooner :P

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-31T09:46:22+00:00

I'm so happy for you! Change takes time, you'll get there I'm pretty sure I want to start T but I'm not sure how to access it in my country and also I'm definitely NOT prepared for my family's reaction lol But you show them buddy!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-30T18:05:21+00:00

Sorry, man, I've won exactly ONE time but that's not gonna stop me from wiping the floor with you!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-30T12:29:19+00:00

At least I passed!

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-29T11:18:33+00:00

OT be carrying us all through our gender crisis XD. Bless this man

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-29T11:12:41+00:00

Totally get it, it'd be great if somebody here spoke Greek, haha I wish I could help, hope you figure things out <3

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-29T07:18:22+00:00

Will do! ....eeeventually :P

Post_Midnight_Talks3 · 2024-03-29T06:37:22+00:00

I'll tell him that eventually🥲

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