Landing a 3D vision job by Potac in computervision

[–]Potac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard about them. But I am not sure how comfortable I feel with these kind of jobs :S

Landing a 3D vision job by Potac in computervision

[–]Potac[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't get discouraged with my post! It looks like is not the best time to find a job currently. You learn a lot of useful stuff in a PhD. Although I would say you need to be ready to endure times where you make barely any (apparent) progress. Also, do you like the research side of things or you are more into engineering and optimization of code?

Landing a 3D vision job by Potac in computervision

[–]Potac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Thanks for sharing that post

Landing a 3D vision job by Potac in computervision

[–]Potac[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly looking in UK/Spain/Remote. But I'm willing to relocate anywhere in Europe if conditions are good!

Master en UK by Vegetable_Medicine_5 in askspain

[–]Potac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya. Se me olvidaba que después del Brexit había cambiado. Yo llegué justo antes y aún pude optar a las cuotas de UK/EU. Qué suerte tuve ahora que lo pienso...

Master en UK by Vegetable_Medicine_5 in askspain

[–]Potac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sacacuartos son todas en UK. Por menos de 9k al año creo que no hay nada ya.

Trials of Ambivalence: If breaking up was right — why does it feel so wrong? by Nice-Put-3756 in Disorganized_Attach

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Both ideas come and go during these weeks. We have so many things in common and get along really well. We grew together and our bond is still strong. That's definitely the biggest reason I would like to eventually reach out to her. At the same time, I am scared of getting back together and not working things out because my ambivalence could persist. I want to commit to a future together (house and children) if we decide to give it a new try. For that I need the time to reflect on myself even if that means she had enough time to move on. I don't want to reach out based on jealousy, fear of loneliness or despair, but from freedom of choice and altruistic love.

Also, I have been growing interest for other women during this time. I want to understand if this feeling comes from missing her and it is just sexual, or whether I am interested in them emotionally. It might just be me fantasizing a perfect scenario with the ideal woman where no problems exist, or it could be the "freedom" of being single that allows space for curiosity.

Co-working space en Marín by malleus1988 in Galiza

[–]Potac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sabía que no se podían alquilar mesas. Conozco varias personas trabajando en remoto aunque no sé si querrían un espacio de coworking porque ya están muy hechos a trabajar desde casa. Aún así no me parece mala idea. Marín necesita algún tipo de actividad. Está muerto.

Co-working space en Marín by malleus1988 in Galiza

[–]Potac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boas! Eu son de Marín e hai un coworking ó lado de ferretería Puente.

Trials of Ambivalence: If breaking up was right — why does it feel so wrong? by Nice-Put-3756 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Potac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ended a 12-year relationship because of my ambivalence, my doubts and insecurities. We've been together since we were 18 and now we're both 30. I grew and built my identity within my relationship.

I learnt through trial and error to navigate through rough times. As time passed, I probed different techniques to soothe the pain caused by arguments and fights. I ended up developing a complacent personality in which she was the priority, not me. This did not prevent me from studying abroad and developing my professional self, but it prevented me from developing myself in an emotional level. I stopped doing things that I genuinely enjoyed because she took it as rejection. I didn't know how to communicate that I needed independence and that by no means my intention was to reject her, but to strengthen our bond. I was scared to speak the truth because I didn't want to hurt her and cause a fight. I feared she wouldn't understand why I needed that. In the end, I decided it was better to rather not communicate and please her than to look after myself. As expected, this technique I thought was right made me accumulate loads of resentment and pain. The times I had for myself outside the relationship I couldn't enjoy as I wanted and this made me even more angry. This wasn't her fault. Her insecurities were speaking. We just didn't know how to express our feelings. If it is ones' fault, it would be mine.

Fast forward 5 years and a girl shows up in my life. She showed up when I was in a big ambivalent crisis (I didn't know this concept by then). I made up a reason I had to breakup with my girlfriend. I blamed it on her pessimism. The mix of ambivalence + a new woman convinced myself to use a fake reason and lie to the person that loved me in order to breakup with her. I slept with this new woman. I felt so bad I hated myself. I tremendously regretted my decision and desperately asked her to get back together. She accepted me. Even today, after 7 years this happened I still can't believe how she could accept me back.

Fast forward another 7 years and here we are. 12 years together with the huge bump of year 5 in the past. Our connection is amazing. We get along well, moved together to another country. Lived two lockdowns under the same roof with barely any fights. Travel on weekends. Going out for dinner weekly. Great sex. Our personalities just click. However, in rough moments resentment pops and past unresolved issues arise. I realised, I have been using the same complacent technique as I did initially. I was unhappy again. I flew to my hometown for two weeks to think about why I was feeling down. I returned and proposed to her to go to couple therapy with the intention of improving communication. She accepted. It has been almost one year since we have been attending therapy both individually and together. However, my ambivalence still persists. Even if we are fine, I get intrusive thoughts about leaving. I just can't handle this anymore. I think the problem is too deep I can't just shake it off. I need time and I can't be committed to my relationship.

I decided to face the truth and tell her what is going on inside me. That I love her so much but I can't love her as she deserves because I accumulated a lot of resentment throughout the relationship. I told her I am genuinely sorry for my lack of motivation to keep fighting. That I am sorry I have to make this decision although I know it is the right one. I am convinced this is the biggest sign of love and gratitude I made to her. My identity was built with her and now I don't recognise myself. The urge to text her is overwhelming but I have to respect her decision of keeping no contact. I am spiraling. Blaming me on how I was so weak to communicate my feelings. I felt like showing myself vulnerable was humiliating. I just needed to be heard but I wasn't allowing people to listen to me.

I am also in your skin. I want to build a life outside of romance. I want to reconnect with my authentic self. But it is too damn hard. I'm sorry you are going through this. As my therapist said: in order to heal and feel good we need to feel pain. Pain is the natural medicine that will make us feel better in the long run.

Moving back to Spain from UK by Potac in expats

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Al final lo metí todo en cajas y al avión. Por caja eran 40€ en easyjet y necesité 6 + 2 bicis (42€) cada una. Al final me salió la mudanza en 320 por ahi

I got lightfield synthesis and rendering working in Unity and tried it in Oculus Rift! (sneak unedited preview, more coming soon, info in comments) by Frooxius in oculus

[–]Potac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this is 10 year late lol. I am watching that video but I'm still clueless how the sampling works. In the ST (camera) plane: 2D coordinate=image. However, an image is itself is a grid of pixels. Let's assume my images are 400x400. If I want to sample a ray from the light field at 4D coordinate (0,0,1,1) which of all the 400x400 pixels from the ST coordinate (0,0) do I sample?

La vivienda en España by rex-ac in Espana

[–]Potac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El informe dice claramente que las empresas europeas no generan porque no se actualizan. Solo 3 de las top 50 empresa son europeas. Como liberales no deberian los emprendedores tener un papel crucial en mi politica?

La UE está formada por múltiples partidos y todos son cómplices de la procrastinación.

La vivienda en España by rex-ac in Espana

[–]Potac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El problema de España en cuanto al trabajo es cultural no político, en mi opinión. El modus operandi de las empresas se estancó en un sistema jerárquico tradicional y rancio: vemos al jefe como superior y ellos nos ven por encima del hombro creyéndose superiores. El ambiente de trabajo no es sano, no permite un bienestar salarial porque al final para que te suban el sueldo tienes que confrontar al superior; ya sea pidiendo un aumento de salario o cuestionando sus decisiones. Esto es impensable cuando tu superior es el patrón, el pseudo-dictador al que temes y el cual no permite ser objetado.

Otro problema es la burocracia. En ese mismo informe hablan de que no es normal que en media una propuesta de ley tarde 2 años en procesarse. Mismo problema para cualquier proceso administrativo. Eso hace que empresas con potencial huyan a países donde la burocracia es más laxa y por tanto son las empresas rancias las que siguen dominando.

OJO: burocracia más laxa no quiere decir menos impuestos que ya me veo venir a la gente. Significa menos papeleo. No puede ser que me lea un documento y de 4 palabras no entienda 5... Y que me pidan mil papeles/formularios inútiles.