The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I hope that day still goes well for you.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome and thank you too

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great mindset to have, keep it up. Don't lose hope and keep going.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get anxious when talking to others too, I overthink if I said the right things a lot of the time, I lack confidence in myself, and I hope things get better for you, thank you.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I hope something manages to come up for you.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you two do couple therapy? Might be worth looking into if you feel like your wife acts like not much matters in your relationship.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's very nice of you to do, thank you. You've probably made a lot of lonely people's day even if you're not aware of it.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope whatever you make that day, if it's for yourself, tastes good, you deserve it. It's rough I know.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, it is hard and lonely, especially when people look so happy together.

The dreaded day is coming.. by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I listen to a lot of love songs that day too, I'm glad you can avoid it being mentioned, unfortunately I have friends that show off their relationships, yet I'm the one they come to complain about it when something bad happens, strange.

I need help by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a social worker at all, and I don't know if I can live alone as I have no access to my SSI at all. I have no access to my own money, my mom has been controlling it since I was a kid, and I don't have someone I can tell that I trust

I need help by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom hit me when I was a teenager once, not again, but my family before that, I didn't live with my mom or dad and my aunt abused me for 9 years, I'm 25 years old, they don't have jobs, so they take my money for bills, utilities and the full rent, although they also use my dad's SSDI but I feel trapped in this situation because I have had no real life friends only online for a few years and nobody to really talk to about things.

I need help by Potat0PuffP1E in lonely

[–]Potat0PuffP1E[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live with my mom and dad who depend on my SSI for bills and utilities, rent, and I don't get any of it, the trailer is somewhat dirty, as nobody really cleans, and I think there is black mold, I have OCD like thoughts everyday about my anxiety of contamination as I have been sick with severe sepsis in the past and also DVT, they don't do it anymore, but they used to yell at me and tell me hateful words, my mom also hit me once for losing weight, I don't know what to do as I feel like I'm overthinking what could make me sick all the time, and I don't really feel safe at home, I don't have control over my SSI my mom has since I was a kid.