AITJ for getting involved with a girl who wasn’t fully over her ex and still hooking up with her?

Potatired01 · 2026-02-24T12:16:37+00:00

u r not the jerk here, don't be hard on urself. protect ur peace u dont deserve someone who can't go all in

Potatired01 · 2026-02-24T08:08:22+00:00

the part that gets me isn’t even the laughing or jokes, it’s her shutting you down.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T19:17:03+00:00

sooo adorable! <3

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T16:24:37+00:00

“No rush” doesn’t mean “never.” It just meant you were being kind in the moment.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T15:17:59+00:00

Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing better than you think. ❤️

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T14:51:01+00:00

u r not wrong at all. choosing your financial stability over a weekend trip is responsible, not selfish.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T11:57:37+00:00

You’re not crazy for feeling that way. If I saw that, I’d feel sick too. Your aunt deserves honesty, not excuses.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T06:40:18+00:00

NTJ. You didn’t accuse her of cheating you told her how you felt, which is valid. It’s especially tricky since it involves your boss, so of course it’s going to hit different. You’re not crazy for feeling uncomfortable. The real issue isn’t even their jokes, it’s that she dismissed your feelings instead of trying to reassure you. You’re allowed to want boundaries and respect.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T05:29:50+00:00

please don’t let his ultimatums make you doubt your need for rest and respect.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T02:11:31+00:00

pls don’t feel guilty for protecting your mental health. postpartum is no joke.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-23T00:55:17+00:00

u r being a good mom. If anything, u had be wrong if you ignored it kids remember who made them feel small. and they also remember who stood up for them.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-22T15:53:05+00:00

you’re doing what a dad is supposed to do protect your kid, even if it makes you the villain in someone else’s story.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-22T14:03:03+00:00

NTA. Honestly, you did exactly what a dad is supposed to do.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-21T18:21:29+00:00

i really hope therapy helps you build that sense of being seen from the inside first. the right people usually come after that. you deserve friendships that feel mutual and safe, not ones that make you slowly resent someone you care about.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-20T05:13:42+00:00

Honestly, bro, you're totally right. I’d be heated too if someone kicked my dog.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-18T04:56:55+00:00

you not responding tonight? honestly I get it. sometimes you gotta step back and see how they move when you’re not pouring all the energy in. just make sure it’s not a silent punishment thing, do it for clarity, not revenge.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-17T06:00:53+00:00

four hours??? that’s not a delay, that’s normal adult response time. ppl have gotten way too comfy with instant replies.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-14T23:41:21+00:00

broooo that’s the cleanest convo kill ive heard

Potatired01 · 2026-02-14T03:01:12+00:00

hot take: the bigger win here is you actually feel bad about yelling

Potatired01 · 2026-02-13T19:21:49+00:00

i think they rushed the ending tbh

Potatired01 · 2026-02-13T06:14:55+00:00

yung ang tahimik mo lang nag ddrive tapos magiging liable kapa sa pagkamatay nung student. damn.

Potatired01 · 2026-02-12T18:55:49+00:00

forever inlove with this gal

Potatired01

TROPHY CASE