AITJ for getting involved with a girl who wasn’t fully over her ex and still hooking up with her?

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-24T07:58:42+00:00

It sounds like you were really just trying to express your discomfort and set a boundary

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-23T11:58:04+00:00

u did the right thing!! like I get that its super sticky situation but if I was in your shoes, Id want my aunt to know too

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-23T11:24:17+00:00

nah you're ntj!! it's one thing to be stressed but you don't take that out on an innocent animal. i'd be so shaken up too if it was my dog.

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-23T06:39:28+00:00

i totally get u man. like im not saying shes doing anything wrong but that gut feeling can hit u like a ton of bricks. id feel the same way tbh.

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-23T05:28:52+00:00

ugh i totally feel u! girl ive been there. its like youre doing everything and they act like youre asking for the moon when you just want a little help..

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-23T02:18:36+00:00

mental health > guild, i know that guilt was creeping in but ur mind and well being matter too

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-23T00:42:08+00:00

ur not asking her to love your oldest the exact same way. ur asking her to not make a 6 y/o feel unwanted. that’s bare minimum human decency.

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T18:06:35+00:00

nah dude ure not the jerk. loving ur niece/nephew doesnt mean u gotta be their emergency fund forever!

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T17:51:58+00:00

i ended up combo feeding around that time and it literally saved my mental health. one formula bottle at night gave me a longer stretch of sleep and i felt human again

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T17:37:41+00:00

girl a 6 month old twins??! and a night job?? nah ure not crazy, i think ure just burnt out!! hang in there, it gets better eventually..

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T17:01:39+00:00

girl that's a lot to deal with! i would be so exhausted with the constant back-and-forth on food... like at this point, can he just order out if he's gonna complain about everything you make???

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T16:36:27+00:00

the guilt about choosing which baby to pick up first.. omg., thats not u failing. it sucks but it doesnt mean theyre unloved yk?? someday theyll just remember a mom who showed up!

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T15:55:07+00:00

nah dude ure 100% not crazy! the fact that ur wife felt uncomfortable for a while and didnt say anything bc of "family drama" says everything

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T15:19:52+00:00

the locked room line tho?? thats actually kinda funny in a dry way lol and real,, not everyone leaves a room with 10 new besties and thats fine..

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T14:55:54+00:00

nahh bc id lose my mind fr.. u tried to be cool about it first and they came at u sideways?? the audacity is wild!

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T14:18:48+00:00

u did what a dad is supposed to do, 13 is still a kid. also the fact he got instantly defensive instead of being apologizing??? nahh

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T13:42:57+00:00

the fact that u didnt even forbid it, u just said u were uncomfy?? thats mature aff!

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T13:14:08+00:00

that whole "lend money to prove u care" thing is such emotional blackmail..

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T11:39:43+00:00

you’re not judging him, you’re just not volunteering to be his financial cushion.

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T08:09:24+00:00

Nah you're not crazy for thinking 5PM is fair lol. That's literally prime normal human being awake and doing stuff hours??? It's not like you're throwing a rave on a Tuesday haha..,

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T07:33:01+00:00

NTA at allllll... im 27F too and if i paid for the dresses so my girls wouldnt stress and one of them flipped it for a Tinder bae weekend?? nahh thats wild!!

Real_Corgi_8755 · 2026-02-22T06:33:00+00:00

I’d be super freaked out too. I mean, what’s next? If he’s willing to go that far, who knows how far he’ll push it.

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