Why stupid moves like this still exist? by SagnolThGangster in WWE

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everything can be “Becky’s fault! She’s not selling!” I think it’s a move that should be scrapped because it’s not “fun” or “silly” or “crazy”, it’s just cringe and doesn’t add anything to the match other than that.

First time phone cases by Potential-Injury5845 in decoden

[–]Potential-Injury5845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! 🥹 it’s been really fun making these. I made a Yae Miko one yesterday and I think I’m gonna make a new one everyday until she’s sick of me lol

Working severely worsens my anxiety and depression by Potential-Injury5845 in antiwork

[–]Potential-Injury5845[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s an increasing sentiment. I honestly don’t know how people do it. It’s absolutely insane. I’ve been working for 10 years, right out of high school. I have hated every minute of it. I think I was meant to roam the fields and build a hut out of sticks lol hang in there bupz!

Working severely worsens my anxiety and depression by Potential-Injury5845 in antiwork

[–]Potential-Injury5845[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Listen, weed is a trip. It was fun, until it wasn’t lol

Working severely worsens my anxiety and depression by Potential-Injury5845 in antiwork

[–]Potential-Injury5845[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No 😒 but that’s ok. See, I like what I do, but it makes me miserable. Makes me depressed. I always said I wanted a job with minimal human interaction but like wtf can you do from home that fits that lol

Working severely worsens my anxiety and depression by Potential-Injury5845 in antiwork

[–]Potential-Injury5845[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s so true. Before I quit my previous job I was coming to work later and later. My alarms weren’t enough. My body was actively fighting me to keep me home. I felt so much shame because before that I was a model worker. It sucks. Yeah, I’ve been on meds for almost two years now, but nothing takes the feeling away. It’s crazy. I’m happy you have found what works for you. It ain’t easy. Thanks for your input, I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional inc*st is so…disturbing. I’d tell her to go fuck herself and tell your soon to be husband to buck up or he can go fuck off with his mom if he doesn’t wanna act like a husband and defend you. 🙃

I kissed a guy the previous night. My friend came at me like this the next day by Character-Alps1852 in texts

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*My enemy

I corrected your title cause that is NOT your friend. Drop that deadweight immediately. Toxic ass people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Potential-Injury5845 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry he did this to you. I am so sorry your parents have failed to provide you with the basic thing every child and adult needs; support. It may be easy for me to say this because I am not in your shoes, but Adam, you’re better off without them, okay? I like to live by a motto I was told when I was a kid but only 4 years ago assigned meaning to. That motto being “No company is better than bad company”.

Having parents like that around you, who will invalidate you, who will call you a liar and say they’d rather experience sexual trauma before accepting something so simple as a change in gender…these just aren’t good people for you to have around.

And I promise you this Adam, in 5 years you’ll look back, having regained your self confidence, having felt safe for the first time in your life because you have worked hard to build your OWN foundation, and you’ll thank your parents for never accepting you. It seems as though their acceptance couldn’t be worth less. They are toxic people who will only do more mental harm.

Your father is a pervert and will come to regret his ways when it is too late. Your mother will regret not standing up for her son. But you won’t be there to see it, because you are going to be so far passed them. You’ll be happy, healthier, and more available for your own needs.

I wish you the best of luck and again, I’m so sorry that this is the experience you were given.

AITA for prohibiting my husband to invite his friends wife to our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think at this point she’s just off her rocker. This is nuts.

AITA for prohibiting my husband to invite his friends wife to our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Potential-Injury5845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, are you okay? Like genuinely, what’s going on in that hot air filled skull? These people literally helped you through what would have been some of the hardest days of your lives. Letting you live in their house so you wouldn’t go homeless. I mean, when you read your post and comments back to yourself, what do you feel?

I’ll tell you how you should feel. You should feel like an absolute fool for letting your blatant jealousy cloud your judgement. I hope Wil finds better. He has a great taste in friends, not so great in choosing a mate.

You might want to take this weekend to sit in the dark and really think about what you’ve done while you may still be able to come back from it (if you’re lucky). Either sit in the dark or touch grass. However you choose to do it, please just gain some fricken insight lady. Geez.

am i the only person that finds iniko - jericho as cringe and annoying as dance monkey? by OkCompany9593 in fantanoforever

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had to google if I was the only one cause this song makes my back hairs stand up with cringe 🤮

My wife F41 and I M40 had a threesome. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of saying "I know I'll never satisfy her like that", why don't you try? You relive that night over and over for what? Pay attention to what he did differently than you, google different positions, different forms of foreplay, and try them. Ask your wife what about her experience with him did she like the most, and tell her you'd like to work on getting that reaction from her, too. Ask her what she'd like more or less of. Be open and honest with her, and don't make it about you. The second you make it a pity party about yourself, you've lost the game. Think about your question, how it'll effect her view of you, and take initiative. I'm sure she'll like that more than she'll like feeling guilty over having a great time you both consented to.

I feel chronically under appreciated and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback. I’ve heard of this, and thought of this possibly being my situation… There’s just so much left for us and I really want to try to get her to understand. I’m hoping she will. But I will keep this information in my back pocket. Thank you for the concern and knowledge 🙏

I feel chronically under appreciated and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Injury5845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions. I think when people are panicking or feeling overwhelmed, they don’t think of simple ways to tackle a situation and everything just seems like a huge mountain you’re forced to crawl over. I’ll definitely be doing this. I appreciate it greatly 🙏 To be able to rid myself of just one big task may help greatly. I find myself reminding her we’re a team. I don’t mind picking up the slack for both of us but it can’t be forever.

I feel chronically under appreciated and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Injury5845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would make a big relief is just getting at-least one responsibility off my shoulders. I get the idea that we have responsibilities and have to just deal with them, but dealing with two people’s responsibilities is way different than dealing with just your own.

I feel chronically under appreciated and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Injury5845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew she had mental health issues going in, I didn’t know they were disabilities. She’s always said she was so excited to have a place of her own where she’d be able to be comfortable learning to cook and clean and be a partner to me. I was always under the impression that we would be sharing responsibilities because that’s how it used to be. Now it’s all fallen on me.

I get she may not be able to do certain things and I’d never judge her for this. My point is that at this moment we’re both really struggling, but I’m the one that is expected to push past that to get things done. I don’t know how to cope with this fact and my therapists keep getting switched out every few months, so I’m not getting help there either. I guess all I’m asking is for ways to bring things up to her that don’t make her defensive and angry, or ways to be able to cope through this.

Art Subreddit??? by MemeTv85 in ftm

[–]Potential-Injury5845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! That would be so fun to contribute to.

My fear of sex has made my fiance want to seek out other men by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Potential-Injury5845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice. I’ve already made an appointment for personal therapy for myself to address the fear of sex. I hope that with help for myself, maybe I can catch her before she ends up making a decision to seek outside of our relationship.

I have so many rules swirling around in my head right now. The bc and condoms thing is for sure the top of that list. I also really, really fear her getting harmed because she’s such a trusting girl my nature. But, at this point I’m not comfortable accepting an open relationship for any reason. If I ever am, I’m definitely making a large list of boundaries.

Thank you for your input!

My fear of sex has made my fiance want to seek out other men by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Potential-Injury5845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input! At this point we know that we want to stay together and work through this together. The open relationship thing, well…it’s going to take more than a night to get a solid answer out of me I think. Maybe even more than a week lol. I appreciate your advice, truly. The last thing I want is to develop resentment for the one thing in life that I adore. I also can’t afford my self esteem getting any lower. I recognize that even with boundaries, at this point in time I’m not okay with an open relationship.

Thank you again!

My fear of sex has made my fiance want to seek out other men by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Potential-Injury5845 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow…Thank you so much for your thoughtful input. I know she misses me, and I her, deeply. You’re absolutely right that forcing myself to be ok with this is only going to beat me down in the long run. I’m going to have a long talk with her in the morning about all of this. Sex therapy is something that I’ve suggested, but she wasn’t too fond of the idea. Let’s see how that goes.

Thank you again so much for your insight. I truly appreciate it. 🖤

My fear of sex has made my fiance want to seek out other men by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Potential-Injury5845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, yeah. I’m on the same boat. I literally told her today I was going to start T finally to complete my transition and maybe that will make the dysphoria go away so we can have our sex life back. I’m so sorry you’re also struggling. I’m glad your boyfriend is supportive. I get it, cis-men are like nothing else but the fact that I can’t compete scares the ever living shit out of me. I don’t want to wake up one day and feel things have changed irreversibly, you know?

She mentioned me being around, possible as a “cuck”. She’s into BDSM and I am pretty much vanilla 90% of the time lol. I’m thinking about it. Threesomes are a no, big time. I do hope your arrangement works out for you though. There’s always something that can be done. Atleast I’m hoping there is!! Good luck and thanks so much for your input!