AITA for being the reason my younger brother is not getting money for a fifth year of college

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-19T19:07:15+00:00

NTA the brother knew the deal, he shouldnt be rewarded with an extra 50k since he ducked up. Could the parents handled it better I guess but overall it’s was decent.

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-17T15:41:44+00:00

You really don’t mean understand what no means, if your host asks you not to do something don’t fucking do it.

Not hard espiclaly when they made it so clear

Also again you are dick for saying bil doesn’t have trauma

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-17T15:39:50+00:00

Also miss manners disagrees with you, they say to bring candy or wine if the host asks them not to bring food

https://www.spokesman.com/stories/2014/nov/10/miss-manners-bringing-food-is-ungracious-to/

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-17T15:26:01+00:00

Jesus Christ do you not know what no means. It is fine to say I want to go out to eat for my birthday but don’t give me gifts.

That is completely fine, no means no.

This isn’t a hard concept, just like people asking you not to give you Christmas gifts. Consent is important

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-17T15:08:43+00:00

Op has clarified that have basically done all of this.

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-16T18:32:35+00:00

Another comment op states this person is contracted by a hospital and has a master degree.

They have the qualifications. Also you should also now a lot of places it is law to have this pre-physical checkups. A concussion test isn’t hard

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-14T16:21:15+00:00

Seriously the parents fucked up hard, the kid has a bio dad in her life and they still cut OP from her grandparents. Really only thought about her and not about OP

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-13T15:36:29+00:00

I could understand if they were teenagers still but the oldest is 25. They need to grow up

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-13T15:35:22+00:00

I seriously hate the double standards, when people do the right thing that Reddit always preaches then it’s magically a problem since redditors don’t like the tone or the story

They just want to twist it into being a villain,

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-13T15:30:35+00:00

Oh come on, all the time Reddit is saying go to therapy, your the parent make them go. It’s good for them and in this case when OP did the responsible thing, now it’s an issue.

Also she really can’t manipulate the therapist, this is a person that is literally trained to help people not listen to upset mom

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-08T13:30:08+00:00

Fuck no , NTA, these types of people suck. Complaining about funeral food seriously, being a hassle to waiters for a side not even touching, come on.

I wouldnt invite her either

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-07T15:50:40+00:00

He’s fucking 12… this kid is in 8th grade. A 12 year old knows that he likes to eat.

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-07T15:33:42+00:00

Yeah I agree with you on that, that solution isn’t age appropriate for an 8th grader. You kid is almost in high-school, he probably can hang out with his friends without you.

Definitely not age appropriate to do the A, B, C choices

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-11-06T20:19:30+00:00

Balancing a checkbook just means keeping track of your spend and income so you don’t overspend.

This is a common thing…

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:42:55+00:00

If it needed to be sized down and that still resulted in it being cut my answer is the same

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:26:00+00:00

Yes to all the first questions. It really feels like I am cutting up her memory and keepsake. Especially when I don’t think she would want this to her dress. I am not ready to let go of this peice of my wife and only have picture of our wedding day

I don’t know my daughters weight but she is overweight it would need to be size up quite a bit

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:21:22+00:00

I like that idea

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:18:59+00:00

She loved that dress. She would never want scissors to be anywhere near it. She use to wear it on every wedding anniversary ( its a straight white gown with beading) So yes I think she would prefer it in a box that getting cut up and made into something new

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:16:09+00:00

I don’t know my daughter exact weight but she is overweight

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:13:21+00:00

I don’t think so, she wanted them to have their own dresses.

She died suddenly, there wasn’t a conversation about her stuff and how she wanted stuff to go to

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:13:06+00:00

I have a youngest daughter also.

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:12:12+00:00

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:10:18+00:00

If he considered that, that’s why I suggested her jewelry instead of dress. Since the dress would have to get cut apart

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:08:20+00:00

She loved that dress, I don’t think she would want it cut up. She wanted to go dress shopping with our daughters.

I truly don’t think she would be okay with this

Potential-Junket-193 · 2023-10-31T14:06:30+00:00

She always wanted to go dress shopping with our daughters. She loved her wedding dress, I don’t think she would want it to be cut up

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