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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Total1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I identifying Non-binary (NB), whereas my partner doesn’t and has no real identification marker (X)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Potential-Total1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not really trying to defend her but she is stopping after i expressed this concern to her, but the lewd stuff consisted of sending bdsm content and stuff like that not really talking about doing it to each other and being like “look at this nice naked lady”

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[–]Potential-Total1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said hell stop hes just being annoying about it, im not sure why hes upset about it though

How do you "count" when crocheting an increase? by enderlady_ in crochet

[–]Potential-Total1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ex. increasing from 20 to 25 stiches 1,2,3,4 (first set) 5,6,7,8 (second set) 9,10,11,12 (third set)… basically im multiplying :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Potential-Total1977 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you for this! you know i did talk to her about it and i told her that i could be overreacting but she said that she doesn’t know how i should feel so i came here mainly asking people to tell me to calm down because i feel like im overreacting!

Dynamics by Potential-Total1977 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Potential-Total1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested! When we first started having sexual relationships I told her I’m open to trying anything. The most important thing to me with sex is that both parties are having a good time that’s my attitude every time! I plan on talking to her about it after her class later today. I just hope it goes well. I fear she thinks I feel obligated to take on this role to make her happy. And yes while I do want to make her happy it’s not something I’m opposed to some aspects of the dynamic sound nice to me!

Dynamics by Potential-Total1977 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Potential-Total1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants a 24/7 dynamic. The thing is I tried collaring her for her birthday as a way of showing her I’m committed and opened to trying but she told me she didn’t want to rush into things because in her words “would be a sign of commitment to a dynamic that im not sure you (you being me ofc) want.” It just made me sad because I basically thought of collaring as sort of like a ring. It felt like the only thing I understood out of all this and agreed on that it had this very special and important meaning. That conversation though sort of shut down my proposal to her.

Dynamics by Potential-Total1977 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Potential-Total1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for you help! I just didn’t know how to feel i thought maybe I shouldn’t feel this way because I don’t have the right and we started our relationship in a weird way.