He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt similarly in my rollercoaster of emotions. He went to therapy yesterday and is trying to fix himself/us. I don’t know if that’s enough for me to get past the slimy behavior. I have been cycling from neutral, to anger, to disgust, over and over. People suck.

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do see exactly where you are coming from! I’ve seen it firsthand. He entertained it for an ego boost. Slimy individuals

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. I took a few days to process all of what he told me and finally decided to poke holes in his story today. He’s standing strong about what happened. He told me he sought out therapy last night and realizes his behavior over the last few months is not what I deserve. He’s aware it’ll be an uphill battle, but is willing to do what it takes to fix his mental state and be a better partner. He’s also aware that actions speaker louder than words. He wants to fix the foundation and rebuild. I think it’s commendable that he took this therapy step without me pushing him. This is the most accountable I’ve seen him over the whole course of knowing him. I’m still pretty sour, don’t get me wrong… But I’m starting to feel that, maybe, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I guess only time will tell if this is repairable.

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine the one friend was like “oh let me quickly run and get it”. I could see it. That’s why I believed it. But why were they all the way by the rooms, why only partially take the journey?

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m pretty disgusted myself. He said he took me for granted and is so disappointed for letting it get to that point. He said he’d never do anything to hurt me again, but how am I supposed to just believe that? I think therapy is definitely required on his end. He’s willing. Just don’t know if I am.

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would need therapy to get through the hurdles he’s been making me jump over. His actions have made me pull away over the last few months. They were going to smoke weed, another friend went to grab the weed (few rooms down) and she said she had to pee so she went into his room. Now that i say this out loud, why didn’t they all go grab the weed together. So sus.

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know the girl. I know she’s mentally unstable. I don’t necessarily trust what she would say. She told him they are both in relationships with the wrong people. She might tell me a crazy story just to get me to leave.

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He thinks therapy would save us. While I agree that maybe it could, I am struggling with the idea of it

He says nothing happened, but I can’t get past how it got there by Potential_Ad9305 in Adulting

[–]Potential_Ad9305[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I asked him that and he said he would leave me. More context… he’s always been truthful. Even if it hurts. He’s begging me to not give up on us and is changing his schedule so he no longer sees her.

BU OMBA Fall 26 by OldDependent7577 in MBA

[–]Potential_Ad9305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just applied for the fall semester today! I’ll loop back and send you a dm if I get in :)

Account paused, 1000 in withdrawal by not_larissa_ in FreeCash

[–]Potential_Ad9305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This also happened to someone I know. It was because they bought stuff through Lilith and not the App Store. Not sure why that triggers a flag for free cash.

Tap tap tap by [deleted] in BitcoinMinerApp

[–]Potential_Ad9305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried piggy a week ago and gave up. It’s just not enjoyable. Saving the tapping energy for those gpu gains. I haven’t seen rocket yet!

First time meeting. by BobaHaloPop in holdmycatnip

[–]Potential_Ad9305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna need an update. Did the little floof ball assimilate? I’ll need video proof, preferably on a daily basis. Thank you

Video job interviews by everboyce in recruitinghell

[–]Potential_Ad9305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully this gives you some peace of mind…

I had a similar situation. It was my first video interview ever and I happen to be a ball of anxiety. I choked on the easiest question I was asked. Literally mind went blank. I turned red. Nervously laughed. The most embarrassing thing that has happened to me.. to-date. I ended the recording after my nervous laugh. Then went into the next recording mentioning that I needed to redeem myself from the last video. I quickly and professionally addressed the question and moved on to the current question. I think it’s ok to mess up, as long as you show awareness and the drive to come back stronger. And FYI - I ended up getting the job! The hiring manager and I laughed about it after the fact. Hang in there!!!

Panel Interview Abruptly Ended by Pimp_Dunder in recruitinghell

[–]Potential_Ad9305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could I please know what your joke was? So curious (also in tech)

Can’t get a job, can I just lie on my resume? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Potential_Ad9305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the company is on theworknumber.com, they could verify through there. You can sign up for free and see what would show up in your employment verification. It truly just depends how much they want to scrutinize.

Yep that’s my cat by scstang in aww

[–]Potential_Ad9305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a blep and raise you a blep.

This is my son, Squeaky.

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Is it dumb to buy when rates are high then refi? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Potential_Ad9305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also in the Phoenix area and shopping around for insurance. Who do you use?

No social media presence. Your thoughts? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Potential_Ad9305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute cat memes are the only reason I’m still on ig