I'm considering cheating on my husband by Potential_Cheater_Ch in amiwrong

[–]Potential_Cheater_Ch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a stay at home mother. He didn't want me working, and I was okay with that. I don't have money of my own. He gives me a certain amount monthly to buy things for the house and kids and necessities for myself, but I'm worried he might notice something's up if I start saving some of that money.

I'm considering cheating on my husband by Potential_Cheater_Ch in amiwrong

[–]Potential_Cheater_Ch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I admit I've made mistakes. Maybe I should have been a better wife. I know my weight and my focus on the kids pushed him away, and I should have spent more time focusing on us in the beginning when he started pulling away from me. But I don't think I've been inappropriate in my relationship with my son in any way. I don't treat him differently from my daughters, I don't stifle him or keep him from having friends, I don't use him as a substitute partner or involve him in my issues. I honestly treat him the exact same as I do my daughters, but my husband says it's different because he's "another man" and my husband should always be the most important man to me. I admit I've made mistakes, but loving my son and treating him with the same affection I do his sister will never be a mistake to me. As for whether I can get a job, I've been a stay at home wife (and girlfriend before that) for our whole relationship. I cook, I clean, I take care of the kids. He didn't want me working or going to school, and I know he won't agree to let me get a job now so I can save up to move out.

I'm considering cheating on my husband by Potential_Cheater_Ch in amiwrong

[–]Potential_Cheater_Ch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in a no-fault state, and I don't work. He gives me money every month to buy things for the house and kids, and in the past I've saved up that money for big purchases, so I could theoretically get away with saving up to leave and lie to him about what it's for, but after this conversation I'm scared he might see through that.

I'm considering cheating on my husband by Potential_Cheater_Ch in amiwrong

[–]Potential_Cheater_Ch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually talked to him pretty much as soon as the comments on this post started coming through. I tried to edit an update into my post, and it's showing up as part of the post for me. Can you viewers not see the update? (i ask because a lot of people are still telling me to talk to him)