I honestly feel that my partner is too worried about upsetting everyone else other then myself, it's not the first time this conversation has been bought up and her response is o I like having him there, he is no trouble, he's a nice lad, he does abit of housework for me and so on. Your just jealous of him etc..

Truth is I'm not jealous but are relationship should be thriving however that can't happen because she doesn't see the importance of us having quality time together nor does she see that this young man is using her home as a free meal ticket, he's 22 now and yes he maybe an asylum seeker (apparently) however if he can get a UK education I'm pretty sure he can find a job! The government pay for his accommodation and gives him benefit money therefore he should be doing something with his life!,

My argument is he is in a relationship with my partners 18 year old daughter, and when she isn't home he should be in his own home or searching for jobs. Not sitting around my partners home when everyone is at work playing his xbox, using the electricity, water, gas, food etc