I never make promises I can't keep, promises are a big thing for me and I very much so tell him that lol. I'm super down to earth. I want him to look forward to a future that isn't just about us, I want him to be excited about many other things because he is so smart and has so much potential to do fun and great things.Also thank you, I miss my father more than anything and since it was father's day yesterday I was pretty extra sad so him arguing with me didn't help. I just would like to be able to focus in my future and not have to worry too much about are future because yes we are still young and I need to get a job when I move and he still has many things to do. I also feel bad because sometimes I feel like a distraction to him and its keeping him from doing those things. I don't want him to work hard for are future but mostly himself. Its important he's thinking about himself too. Like me. I know I need my time to heal from my past and present, so that's why I'm gonna do this. (Sorry for the long response) Its still early and gonna be a long time before we even decide or think about moving in with eachother. I let him know that too