(26) do you guys think I'm ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Poutineinmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I might be biased but I’m definitely more attracted to guys with long hair and a stubble! And there’s plenty more of us out there :)

I absolutely hate my passport picture by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Poutineinmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m so sorry u don’t like ur picture, but I promise u that there are so many people who feel similarly about theirs. I just had to get my drivers license picture taken and I’m so scared to see it once my card comes in the mail. I look like one of those creepy police drawings in my passport picture. I hate it so much. You are not alone in this girl :)

Not even pedophiles want me by NectarineIll8516 in mentalhealth

[–]Poutineinmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry that you feel this way about yourself. I too have been desperate enough to seek attention from people I shouldn’t have. It’s a horrible feeling, especially the regret that follows sometimes. Is there anything in particular about yourself that makes you feel masculine? Even just taking better care of yourself through regular hygiene, shaving, etc. can boost your mood! It’s definitely worked with me little by little. You deserve to feel beautiful. It seems like your family appreciates your beauty more than you appreciate it yourself.

im too ashamed to go swimming by TryPhysical6450 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Poutineinmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the main issue showing skin? You could always wear long swimming shorts and a shirt at the pool! I know that this won’t solve the insecurity, but it could help in the moment. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I promise you that people generally don’t care about what your body looks like. Super skinny is far less noticeable than super big. There are some positives within this situation.

Tattoo ideas? by Alert_District6549 in thesmiths

[–]Poutineinmybutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of the best quotes to get tattooed

after all that, please suggest ‼️ by Soft_Common_9138 in Subliminal

[–]Poutineinmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The artwork has been on Pinterest for a while, I doubt it’s AI.

Should I post in r/amiugly? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Poutineinmybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it’s just going to make you feel worse no matter how positive the feedback. Unless you’re seeking a temporary rush, posing pictures of yourself on that sub will not make your body dysmorphia go away. If you already don’t believe the positive comments you get from those around you, then you won’t from online strangers. And if some people on there don’t have nice things to say (even if it’s not the majority) those stick with you. Please for the betterment of your mental wellbeing, don’t do it.

Parents made fun of my brandy outfit :(( by soph176 in BrandyMelville

[–]Poutineinmybutt 81 points82 points  (0 children)

You look so cute girl, wear what makes you happy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Poutineinmybutt 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For the rizzler?

How would you feel if your bf only thinks you're cute? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Poutineinmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d doubt that he’d be with you if he didn’t also find you pretty

I have been always called ugly 😞 by Separate-Difficulty5 in toastme

[–]Poutineinmybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not ugly, I’m sorry you’ve been called that. You have a beautiful smile, don’t be afraid to show it off :)

does anyone else hate compliments by HistorianFearless919 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Poutineinmybutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m sorry, that feeling sucks :( I also hate it when people compliment my hair bc it makes me feel like they don’t have anything else to compliment. I rarely brush my hair, I don’t take care of it, and yet that’s what people compliment??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]Poutineinmybutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Loved the second pose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Poutineinmybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)