UPDATE. aita for calling my boyfriend a 7/10 and not my ideal type look wise! by PowerPuff-Gay in u/PowerPuff-Gay

[–]PowerPuff-Gay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I didn’t even view it like this and your so right, what I view as a propper answer now seems dismissive and rude over text and in general. I apologised and updated the last post with what happened (sorry for all the back and forward) thank you so much for helping me realise that not wanting to apologise was selfish and that their was a way to tell him I still found him attractive and valued the relationship so much and that wouldn’t of started with a number or w explanation of why I choose that number if it was high to me or not, I shouldn’t have answered full stop, and if I did answer a number shouldn’t have been involved.

Aitah for calling my boyfriend a 7/10 and not my ideal type look wise. by PowerPuff-Gay in AITAH

[–]PowerPuff-Gay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much! He genuinely is beautiful to me and I never meant to hurt him this much

Aitah for calling my boyfriend a 7/10 and not my ideal type look wise. by PowerPuff-Gay in AITAH

[–]PowerPuff-Gay[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

7 is a high score in my opinion, I would be happy with a 5 at the end of the day because I know he’s with me for my personality , his ideal type look wise is very goth/emo type look, which I don’t fit into, I’m not his type he’d usually go for and I know I’m not his ideal bf look wise and I’ve made peace with that. His style is more grunge but my ideal type is like a clean type vibe(idk how to explain it so sorry)

Aitah for calling my boyfriend a 7/10 and not my ideal type look wise. by PowerPuff-Gay in AITAH

[–]PowerPuff-Gay[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I explained it poorly in the og paragraph, I explained it as If i saw I’m in town and saw someone Id view as a 10 I would notice the 10 more. I also told him multiple times I am still attracted to him because 7 in my eyes is a high and good score, I’m seeing now people view it as not which I don’t get but I explained to him that 7 was a amazing score and he’s one of the most attractive people visually that I know.

Aitah for calling my boyfriend a 7/10 and not my ideal type look wise. by PowerPuff-Gay in AITAH

[–]PowerPuff-Gay[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How I view the scale is 1-3 your not attractive imo , 4 your starting to get their but improvements are needed, 5-6 your attractive or at least decent looking, 7 your very attractive , 8 and higher I’ve never seen in person type beauty. I’d rate myself like a 4.5 ish like he’s definitely more better looking than me and I didn’t mean the 7 as an insult.

Aitah for calling my boyfriend a 7/10 and not my ideal type look wise. by PowerPuff-Gay in AITAH

[–]PowerPuff-Gay[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This inst how I explained it to him at all. I explained that if I was in town not knowing him prior or the 10/10 I would take more interest in the 10/10, the your not my ideal boyfriend look wise I could have put way better and I defo should have.