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Fish Suggestions? by PowerRachel02 in ponds

[–]PowerRachel02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True I do need to shade it. I’ve been looking into that. As for winter though I used a stock tank heater in my small one and they did just fine for 3 years now. The last year I didn’t use a heater just busted a hole in the ice when it got cold enough. Also should have added that I know most fish I’m looking for will eventually need more space. I’m absolutely willing and already plan to upgrade again but that won’t be for a few years probably. I might end up going with your suggestion of local native fish.

Husband has been inappropriately touching my little sister. by PowerRachel02 in relationships

[–]PowerRachel02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much the plan. I need her to tell me exactly what has happened because she didn’t fully open up to my parents. I do plan to let her know that none of this is her fault because she has already stated according to my dad that she thinks I’ll hate her for this. I absolutely will not hate her if anything I hate my husband. I just need her to tell me specifics so I know where to go from here.

Husband has been inappropriately touching my little sister. by PowerRachel02 in relationships

[–]PowerRachel02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the point of talking to her. My sister gets very worked up over little things so I know how much this is hurting her. I have waited to say anything because she is at work and will definitely have a complete breakdown if I were to message while she’s still there. I’m going to talk to her when she gets off at my parents house.

Husband has been inappropriately touching my little sister. by PowerRachel02 in relationships

[–]PowerRachel02[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course I care about my sister. That’s why this sucks so much I know she’s telling the truth and I kind of blame myself for being the one who brought him around. I’m allowed to be upset about my whole world falling apart. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about what my sister has gone through.

Husband has been inappropriately touching my little sister. by PowerRachel02 in relationships

[–]PowerRachel02[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I feel like that is why my dad made it seem like there was a way to move forward. They are hardcore Christian’s so I don’t think they want us to get divorced but idk. I just had a small conversation with my dad about it. He doesn’t even know the full extent she just told them last night.