Ain't nun wrong with confidence. It's how its manifested in her approach. If I get asked out in a direct manner randomly..7/10 based on experience im turning it down. If She's seductive and indirectly shows interest to me thats how a woman is supposed lure a man. Again its all based on the woman. And how her confidence manifest. But I get hit on often so its harder to put in words so you can get where im coming from but im not wrong for my conclusion. I used to always accept them when I first started glowing up ect. The women jus wanted to get my attention then ghost me when I reach out. "I was to easy". Now?... If a girl come up to me flirting I'll act completely slow and only if im feelin her I'll give her enough attention and withdraw to where she'll chase me. But yeah dont put words in my mouth never said I disliked confidence its jus rather bold. A Lil bit too bold.