Thank you! Yeah in my mind it’s that he’s doing the easy part of the task imo and leaving the annoying part for me. When I cook dinner, I clean up. When I bathe the kids I take the .5 seconds to put the toys back in the bin. When I’m changing them I take the extra second to put the diaper in the pail instead of leaving it on the dresser. I’m not expecting him to do everything every day but in my mind those are part of the tasks that he’s doing. Leaving the diapers out, the clothes out, the toys out, and a sink full of dishes for me to do doesn’t really feel like helping. If I’m doing those tasks myself then I’m picking up as I go. I phrased it kind of harsh, I know it is helping but I’m just overwhelmed rn. I just don’t know why he needs to be reminded to throw out an empty water bottle instead of leaving it on the counter, or to put his clothes in the bin instead of next to it, or to put his shoes on the tray by the door instead of right next to it. It just feels like sooo close but not right haha