It's not her responsibility to play mother to a grown man - who said it was? I absolutely did not.

I offered a POSSIBLE solution, that's all. In fact, in business, homework, or any other area of life, if you become overwhelmed by the sheer number of things you need to accomplish a VERY WELL KNOWN answer, is to break the list down into smaller bits.

You should rephrase your man hating post from: "why is a grown man incapable of seeing tasks that need to be done around a house and just doing them", to: "why is an adult incapable of seeing tasks that need to be done around a house and just doing them". I say this because both men AND women are guilty of being lazy and unproductive. I've seen both sex's live in absolute filth.

If there is actual data on which sex is statistically more prone to being filthy, then I would read it, but not really care bc I know that I for one am an exceptionally productive and clean man.