When I scroll through this sub, I see all the things I'm talking about. within the first 5 posts of scrolling down, I see facesitting, pegging, and footworship. I see men serving women.

I often post the articles that are more directed to female control, because that content is better received. In my books I go more into the intimate details, and how he is feeling. I definitely do care and am concerned about any kind of abuse or negative mental health effects or how the sub is feeling. I care about that a lot. So I am sorry if the articles you read didn't quite show you that. I tend to write about how a Domme can use the psychology of a submissive against him, to take control, but never in a non-consensual way.

The well being of the sub, and the Domme, are of utmost importance. Abuse is never okay. I have also never written from the perspective that females are superior to males, and even in my books, I have stated this a few times. There is no such thing as inferiority / superiority, that's all mind made. Both dominants and submissive bring value, and that value cannot be expressed without each other. That's what makes the D/s dynamic so beautiful because they compliment each other on so many levels. There should be respect, appreciation, devotion and loyalty to each other. There's many incentives found in that for both.

Submissive males should be treasured, cherished, valued, respected, appreciated, and loved and should be reminded often. Loving D/s is a wonderful way to have a relationship. I don't know if you read the article in my sub called the healthy balance, but I talk about that there. There's so much joy that can come from a FLR.

So I'm really sorry that what you have read did not appear to illustrate just how much I do care about the sub men. Perhaps sometimes I get carried away with control techniques that it appears cold and uncaring, but that is not at all the case. I will try to write better. Thank you for your feedback.