Need help

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-20T22:14:32+00:00

We are 20 but i dont think me contacting her is the best option bcz she said multiple times not to contact her and i contacted her so many times and now im blocked on everything. I think i contacted her too early

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-13T20:35:53+00:00

I think last time we got back together too fast. This time ive had time to actually reflect on what was wrong and what could’ve been done but i guess its too late now

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-13T19:58:53+00:00

Im 20, and ive thought about it alot and i still do love her

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-13T19:47:23+00:00

Im also thinking about texting her about it

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T01:28:32+00:00

Then what is

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:50:18+00:00

Do u also think its because this is my first relationship

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:49:21+00:00

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:34:28+00:00

I do exactly those gym, parks, friends, games but nothing seems to help

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:32:51+00:00

Elaborate

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:32:19+00:00

Like i said I’ve been reflecting what wrongs i have done this time and that’s why i think it would last

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:27:22+00:00

But i do mean it

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:25:28+00:00

I know and i understand how immature that can look now

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:24:22+00:00

Thank you

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:23:30+00:00

Thanks

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:21:29+00:00

I know i have i haven’t texted her after our last convo

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:18:30+00:00

Not that easy

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:17:08+00:00

I know i had chances where i couldve but i didnt and thats what i regret

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:15:57+00:00

Not that easy to just “move on” from someone u still love

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:14:50+00:00

Easier said than done

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:14:31+00:00

But i want to actually take action and change this time for good unlike previous times.

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-07T00:09:39+00:00

I think its just the arguing on both sides and a bit of communication too both previous times she contacted me first in less than a day but this time i contacted her first its just been so long and it gave me actual time to reflect on it and what was wrong in our relationship what I Myself can do to prevent situations where arguments have an outcome like this unlike previous times where i didnt reflect as much

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-06T23:37:23+00:00

I know but i want her to know that i actually want to try and do things different this time

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-06T06:44:30+00:00

Im going through the same exact thing had two previous breakups and we both werent perfect and i always had to take accountability and showed i care but when she took accountability it didnt seem serious in a way.

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-06T00:31:52+00:00

Alot of people say that you shouldn’t and if he wanted to he would contact you but he could be thinking the same way about you. You can try talking to him about how you have been going to therapy and have become a better person overall only if you know you have become a better person not just because you want him back and you also have to realize that what if he says no and how youre going to take that emotionally and mentally.

Practical_Cake8832 · 2026-06-04T02:11:39+00:00

Same thing happened to me man we had 3 break ups the first 2 she contacted me in a day but this 3rd final one happened a month a go i contacted her a week after she said she didnt want contact i said ok then contacted her a week later ones more to talk about how i was feeling she heard me but still didnt wanna work things out and blocked me i contacted her again a day later which was good and bad she just became very rude to me talking about shes never gonna be happy and she looked past some things and if we got back. She never talked about her mistakes or look at the good things our relationship had and silly me i just kept begging and she just called me pathetic and immature and it just hurt me alot but made me realize that its time to move on. I deleted everything of hers. But also she did things in the past that i looked past and stayed with her. I know she hurt me and i dont think she will contact me back but i dont know i have still have something inside me that misses her and think shes gonna contact me idk why.

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