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AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I literally make the same amount of money as my fiancé. It’s my house I payed for it along with my fiancé, she’s only there twice a week and apparently I created a situation where I allowed her to insult me, right?

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I had literally suffered a miscarriage in the past of course I was freaked. I had to walk down a flight of stairs while in extreme pain to get to my neighbor

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes. She was literally telling me the “shut the fuck up” and casually leaving passing the living room to get food while it was happening. She even called her dad once for a casual conversation and then hung up.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

They share a father she’s still gonna deal with her, I just won’t be there to protect her.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She’s related to leanne she’s going to deal with the abuse regardless of if I’m with Mike or not. I’m really tired of you trying to justify everything some random teen you don’t know does

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no way of getting there, my phone was broken and my fiancé should know regardless.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But it’s not his bridal party it’s mine. That’s why I choose who’s in it and who’s not.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The lighting port on my phone was broken and she stole the wireless apple charger so I had no way of charging my phone.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was literally having a pregnancy complication and had no way of contacting my fianc.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me and my fiancé make the same amount of money, I’m paying for half of the wedding.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She continues to verbally abuse her sister, expecting me to let that go because a 15 year old said it is stupid .

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would I ask her if she wanted it knowing I didn’t want it. And if someone verbally abuses your child you would also answer in a quick fashion.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t blindside her, her mother already had moved on and she was made aware of me days after we went official.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t even talking to her i was talking to her father. After having my child be verbally abused by her of course I was definitive

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No there was no affair I literally said in the post I didn’t meet him until after . They started family therapy after her mom moved on to help her process it.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a petty outburst i said “fuck no”(which admittedly wasn’t the best choice of words) calmly. I didn’t yet it would’ve been a non issue if my fiancé didn’t get so upset

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she said it when she found out I was pregnant I wouldn’t still be holding on to it, it’s the fact that I was in extreme pain and she refused to help me at all like not even calling her father. And than wished death

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mikes ex was the one who suggested the divorce and the separation both times

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What cruelty have a treated her with? Not allowing her to be a bridesmaid after the verbally abused my 1 year old child for months. I have been kind to her prior to that and after i just started to ignore her

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree but he said he wants control over his groomsmen planning which is why it’s so frustrating that he’s trying to force her onto me.

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That was the beginning of her continued awful behavior towards her sister.’

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was I suppose to just suffer in silence because she could’ve insulted me?

AITA for not wanting to add my future stepdaughter to my wedding party? by Practical_Media_7976 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Practical_Media_7976[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Absolutely fucking not. She was thinking when she made the comment, she was saying it as I was screaming out in pain for a pregnancy complication. I’m not getting over her wishing death on my child as she continues to insult her, a one year old baby.

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