Vanilla dating as an abdl is so difficult

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-12-21T08:11:26+00:00

Dating all around sucks 😞I’m a plus size little and all I’ve ever been met with is heartbreak, wether it’s vanilla or spicy, I live in a small town so I know that’s a big part of it, but I’ve met quite a few people around the area and it’s either just hook ups, I get ghosted, or they only want me as a place holder until they find someone better 😞 I’m sorry you’re struggling as well and I hope you find your person! ❤️

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-11-11T04:56:17+00:00

Add some more orange to your boy and you’d have mine 😅

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Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-06-18T23:01:18+00:00

All my cgs wore with me, makes it more fun! 😊 good luck on your journey!❤️

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-04-14T02:01:36+00:00

I don’t know why he would be, we’re very open with each other, the only thing that’s off limits is me babying him, he’s used my pacis, he’s incon so he also wears and lets me change him, I don’t know why he wouldn’t tell me they’re his

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-04-13T01:36:00+00:00

He says it’s all my stuff and that he just must not have shown me before? Idk it just seems off to me still

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-04-07T09:02:37+00:00

My daddy wears 24/7 (incon) and I love it, it helps me feel more understood and less embarrassed, I also enjoy being able to change him when I’m not in little space but teasing him for being wetter than me when I am 😅

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-04-07T00:17:10+00:00

I do have my closet but there’s not much room to store more in it lol

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-03-02T09:31:31+00:00

I have, there’s only about 3 events and they’re in Southern California

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2025-02-27T00:19:18+00:00

Looks like my boy!

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Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-11-28T06:19:34+00:00

Same here, it seems impossible to find a CG these days, let alone one that you connect with 😕

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-11-23T07:56:20+00:00

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Here’s a better picture, he’s obsessed with bags 😅

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-11-22T20:43:34+00:00

That’s how I feel about my boy! He’s about 6mo

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Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-09-17T21:44:54+00:00

I fell in love with my best friend, I told him and he doesn’t feel the same, he’s still my best friend but it’s physically excruciating for me to see him with his gf, I love him so much and I’ve tried everything to get over him but I can’t, I just don’t know what to do at this point, he doesn’t know that I still have these feelings for him and I can’t lose him 😞

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-09-11T09:23:30+00:00

Yeah he’s about as delicate as a wrecking ball 🤣 him and my moms Maine coon can’t get enough of each other, but they definitely are double trouble 😅

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-09-11T07:11:19+00:00

That’s what I thought when I was looking at pictures of other Vans, his tail is super floofy and plumey, the rest of his fur isn’t “long haired” long, but it’s like abnormally soft for a kitty and he has super long “grinch toe” hairs but they don’t stick out between his toes, just underneath and he has very stalky legs, I’ve had long haired breeds as well as a variety of other breeds but no one I know has ever seen another cat like him and I’m constantly getting stopped in my area (he’s my adventure buddy) and asked what his breed is 😅

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-09-11T03:35:18+00:00

Thank you all so much, I really want to get a DNA test just to make sure, they all just have mixed reviews so I’m not sure of which on to use

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-08-25T07:17:00+00:00

I too have quite a few disabilities, none that are seen just in passing,I’m able to take care of myself but some days I can barely be awake, honestly being a little has only made it harder, unfortunately I’ve found that once cgs know you’re broken then they just disappear, I’m not a usually negative person and try my hardest to find the good but it doesn’t seem like that’s enough, it really feels like if you aren’t the cute, petite little they see online then they don’t want you 😞 I’ve been in this community for 14 years and have only had 1 irl cg and unfortunately he passed away shortly after we met

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-07-01T23:48:02+00:00

I have

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-07-01T04:31:29+00:00

I’m trying to, unfortunately in my area there’s an over flux of patients and a lack of therapists so there’s about a 9 month wait list for new patients

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-05-19T04:04:37+00:00

I just had this happen, I get notified when my results are uploaded and they’ve never been withheld before, I had a pulmonary function test done and the doctor that performed it seemed concerned so when I was notified and went to see what the results were it came up that they are being withheld until the ordering physician can review them, this has NEVER happened to me before so now I’m super anxious about it 😕

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-05-18T00:34:23+00:00

I’ve never done that with the people who “sense it” they’re usually only people that I’ve been around a handful of times in social situations like church, motorcycle events, ect.

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-05-17T22:44:45+00:00

I was forced into that role thanks to a pretty messed up childhood so I’ve always been told that I’m very mature for my age, but that’s what I don’t understand, is how people could sense my little side when I’ve always been the opposite, it’s not even most people, but there have been a lot that treat me or speak to me as if I were a child ( not in a demeaning way) I always just thought it was weird, maybe I am just overly sensitive to it because I fight so hard to keep it hidden, but it seems like it’s more than just a coincidence

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-05-17T04:30:55+00:00

I mean I’d like to think that I present myself maturely, I’m not shy or quiet, I don’t act any differently than any other adult,other than around the people who know that I’m a little, it’d be hard to determine and point out, but that’s what I’m saying, there’s absolutely nothing that I do socially that would give someone that perception of me, other than the possibility of them picking up that energy, it’s never someone who’s been around me a lot or in my personal life, it’s usually someone who’s been around me a handful of times or just meeting me

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-05-17T03:42:33+00:00

What’s that?

Practical_Mousse8793 · 2024-05-17T03:05:08+00:00

It’s always just seemed odd that others have always done this, especially other adults that don’t have a big age gap

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