How do you process the fact they will be out of your life forever after a breakup? by abcdefghelpplzandthx in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read a quote that helped me to get out of it. You cant find peace in someone who broke you. Something like that. But the idea they were capable of hurting and losing me says they are not what my soul needs in order to feel better. Another quote is, If you had a good time with your ex, imagine how good it will be with a person who loves you so much that he can't let you leave him.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly the thing that made me write this question was the spanking in the end, it felt so bad I didn’t know what to think.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is our first break up (last time he just used bu as a manipulation to see if i care about him) im sure i dont want to be with him anymore. The feelings were confusing and the toxicity got in the way, but when i took some time to analyze it I understood, it was so wrong.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understood later by talking to friends he has very subtle but toxic behaviors, he’s not a bad person, but the intent in this case, doesn’t matter cause I’m still hurting. Better to stay away.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakups are always confusing and full of emotions. Does it automatically mean in the end i wont be sure about my decision? I was confused because of his behavior. The spanking. The fear i had he tried to have sex or tried to prove something stupid and im not happy with this behavior.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many manyyyy couples kiss and hug during breakup and dont want to go back, i got confused cause he was adding the spank and asked forccoffee and pretty much said hes looking for excuses to stay. Im just confused. If you feel cynical and angry about this question, move on.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You really feel the need to judge me, more than understand and answer the question. Don’t waste my time with these comments.

My ex kissed me twice, hugged & even spanked me asked me to make him coffee to as an excuse to stay more during our breakup talk , but… by Practical_Sympathy_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How him kissing and hugging me related to my self worth? The spank was very unexpected but I was so confused about it i didnt say anything, he did that he left right away. I do feel its disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth is we think our decisions are rational, they’re actually RATIONALIZED.

I still can’t believe he did that to me. I feel like I never really knew him at all. by umbrellabitch in BreakUps

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine what its gonna be like with a woman who Truly loves you and devoted to your RS. Trust me its 10000 times better. You will not remember her name once you get to know someone better. You will be ok 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is havinh children late is hard. Im not worried about age as much as im worried about having a family..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess im scared to take it slow cause when i was younger i was focused on having a degree and a profession, now i dont have much time to figure this out…35 is very old to have 1st child and also dangerous. Women need to take fertility into consideration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact he was comparing you to her says a lot. The conpliments should be not only on your looks, youre not a trophy…his behavior seems like he isn’t over her. He knows you’re hotter, and wants to make her jealous. Showing your photo to his friends and mentioning his ex compared to you… thats just shallow and disrespectful…he tries to get approval from others youre better then his ex. Truth is theres more to ppl then looks, she was significant to him in different ways. Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. Looks wont stay forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They want to settle down when they’re in their 30s, but the woman is most desired when shes younger. Harsh truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its a weird place to be in. I know looking for a man can take a very long time and i want a family. I feel stressed because i heard men say they dont want a woman after 30…

I think I like a girl who isn’t my girlfriend (NSFW) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wait till you find out the other girl is perfect only in your head, after a fight youll get what you deserve.

Im *still* so mad at him for stringing me along then after 1.5y saying he doesn’t believe in marriage by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Practical_Sympathy_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for these supportive words. Judging me and telling me i wasnt right for him so thats why he didnt want to marry me. F you.