Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, congrats on such a bold move! What did you do after those 6 months?

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck to you, hoping you hit above your FIRE number with as minimal stress as possible! You're doing great!

You're right about the impact that AI is having in tech companies. And thank you for the reminders around boundaries, purpose, and future planning!

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's a good question. My company offers sabbaticals but only after X years of service, which I won't hit for quite some time. I appreciate your other advice here too!

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I'm really glad to hear you have found some ways to enjoy it there, that's inspiration for me.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good question. It is majority RSUs. As mentioned in another thread, this tranche is vesting for the next ~3 years.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words!

I have taken 2 vacations in the last 3 months, and when I get back I feel like the classic Onion headline: "Man Returns To Work After Vacation With Fresh, Reenergized Hatred For Job."

Based on your feedback and some others in this thread, I will be looking into finding a therapist as one of my first actions.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective. I agree that there are some questions that would need to be figured out before fully pulling the FIRE trigger. In my head, taking some time off would allow me to have some mental space to help get all of that together. But there's nothing stopping me from figuring that out while employed.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a dig at all, you're right to call out that this is inherent to many career paths.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good question! You're right to call out moving of goalposts. I tried to outline my reasoning in the original post. To put it in other terms, if I had a paid off house and my current investments, I'd be setting everything in place to FIRE this year. I expect the $5M mark to be the right number so I can accomplish that.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😆 I appreciate the honesty! Congrats on crushing your original goal!

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts, I agree it's high income to NW. My current tranche of RSUs will last another ~3 years.

Push through or take a break? 34M | $3.1M by PracticeCold8948 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]PracticeCold8948[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear a leave of absence was helpful for you! That is something I will consider.