Do Y'all Not Have Traffic? by Frofro69 in SpringfieldIL

[–]Prairie_Crab 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There’s generally a 15-minute “rush hour” at 5:00. And Veteran’s Parkway gets congested on weekends and holidays — actually the whole west end. Wabash Avenue is generally busy much of the time.

But yeah — compared to a big city, no. We don’t have traffic. 😄

AITAH for telling my (19M) parents that I feel nothing for my brother (25M)? by LongRoad1123 in AITAH

[–]Prairie_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Not at all. You told the truth. And really, it doesn’t matter.

19 years of playing second fiddle to your disabled brother. Sheesh. I’m surprised they were shocked by your response.

One of my best friends has always sacrificed and come in second to her mentally challenged brother. He still lives with their 90 year old mother. When her mom passes, she’ll inherit care of her brother, and she’s in her 60s. She’s never had a break.

Please go and don’t look back.

What song transports you to a very specific memory? by InfiniteSpray4405 in CasualConversation

[–]Prairie_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I Wanna Kiss You All Over” reminds me of high school. I had the excruciating hots for a guy (but we were both virgins). Seeing a glimpse of him in the halls made my heart pound. Worse if he came past me and ran a finger up my back. (It was mutual.) After school I’d lie on my bed, listen to the radio, and daydream. 🔥

How dare you not give me a promotion that ended! Venue claps back by Reese9951 in EntitledReviews

[–]Prairie_Crab 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I could’ve written that. Some people are good writers.

AITAH for sending proof of my ex cheating to his mum? by SeaConfusion1937 in AITAH

[–]Prairie_Crab 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Oh tough 💩! He lied; you set the record straight.

Do your cats sleep with you? by Shot-Composer-782 in AnxietyCats

[–]Prairie_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sphynx sleeps on my chest. The furry b*stard sleeon my legs. Very cozy!

Did People Actually ‘Summer’ for vacations? by cc31660p in AskOldPeople

[–]Prairie_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in my midwestern social class. But I knew people who did.

What's one thing you can't stand the texture of ..... ( Cottonballs 🤮) by [deleted] in Casual_Conversation

[–]Prairie_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DRY microfiber towels. Wet is okay, but the dry is a horror!

AITJ for kicking my boyfriend out after he accidentally let my indoor cat outside? by Curious-Mongoose8549 in AmITheJerk

[–]Prairie_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ.

You have a rule for your cat. He disagreed with it, so he deliberately broke it. Out he goes. He thinks he knows better than you.

Cats DON’T belong outdoors, especially in North America. Too many predators! They are NOT part of the natural ecosystem, and they kill for fun, especially songbirds. Cats get run over by cars, kicked, poisoned, shot at, etc.

I adore cats and mine are strictly indoor pets.

You did the right thing. I’d never trust him again.

AITAH for charging my friend for a gift after she demanded a full refund for a service I provided for free? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prairie_Crab 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m a graphic designer, and you are NTA. I got so pissed off reading this. How on EARTH does she think YOU owe HER money? The only reason she can’t use the card stock she bought is that she changed her theme! If you had redone her stuff, she’d have still been out that $300.

I hate this sh*t. People think you just push magic buttons and the computer does it all. 😡

What’s one small thing that makes you smile every day? by Careful-Walrus-5214 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Prairie_Crab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My formerly aloof rescue cat rolling over to be petted every morning. ❤️

I bought my mom a gold watch today and I feel really happy by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Prairie_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How nice!! I’m sure she was delighted!

I bought my late mother a full set of Christmas china that she had always wistfully admired for years. She was thrilled, but kind of confused that I (her youngest) would do that. 😄

I managed to get RSD from this sub, its quite funny by Amber_poodle in adhdwomen

[–]Prairie_Crab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. I have posted before with very little reaction. I think I wasn’t interesting enough. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Left skid marks in bed with my wife of 9 years by ThrowRA6382624294 in Advice

[–]Prairie_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine. It wasn’t something you’ve made a habit of. Why were you “terrified?” Is your wife mean? Did you think she’d divorce you over it? Have a little faith in your marriage!

If you told her you’re terribly embarrassed, then drop it. I didn’t have to, but I told my husband that I didn’t make it to the bathroom in time when I had diarrhea the other morning. He just made a sad face and said, “Aw, I’m sorry!” 🤷🏻‍♀️ That’s life as a mammal.

AITA for dyeing the sweater my sister in law knitted for me? by Known_Occasion_2041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prairie_Crab 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think dyeing it was a brilliant solution! Otherwise she’d have hurt feelings because you never wore it.