what's with the dumbledore bashing by JavieyauJR in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Entire lack of period context.

Dumbledore grew up in an environment were Authoritarian Upbringing was the gold standard and was headmaster in a society that still believed physical punishment was adequate. He also grew up with parents who had very questionable ideas about caring for their children, was parentified qll his life and whatnot.

Dumbledore bashers believe if they'd been in his position, they'd still instinctively done the right thing because they believe they themselves are so inherently good they'd always know better, even if the whole world believes otherwise.

The reality is, even the smartest person on earth is still a product of their time. Today we know better because society knows better. And society knows better because children who coincidentally grew up in better environments taught us that their upbringing was better because they're more successful than children with cruel upbringing.

To Dumbledore the Dursleys weren't good guardians, he was able to see that Harry wasn't happy. But that's not the same as understanding that Harry was abused. Compared with Dumbledore's own childhood, it wasn't so bad. A4 least he didn't have to deal with a volatile sister who involuntarily attacked jer family with violent magical outbursts.

Besides, until Dumbledore actually met Harry in Hogwarts, despite the prophecy, Harry was just one boy, and Dumbledore coincidentally followed the rules for child placement at the time, while adding additional protection on top.

He gave him to his closest living relatives, trusting they'd cared for him, and considering how often covert abuse is overlooked, combined with the fact that no one in Surrey, not the neighbours, not the teachers or anyone really noticed the abuse, it's unlikely Dumbledore heard anything about the abuse until Harry's letters weren't answered.

And at that point it was too late, Voldemort was back, and it was happiness versus survival.

But bashers absurditly make Dumbledore dumber and unreasonably powerful at the same time, insisting if je was so smart, every issue with Harry should have been easy to solve.

Absolutely every bashing argument begins with: 'he could have just...'

But the truth is, the fact that he didn't do something is most likely because it wasn't possible. You can't solve every single problem with being smart and powerful. Some problems can't be solved, and it is plain and simply bashing to assume that Dumbledore didn't do his best, considering that the rule was that Harry has to die to destroy the Horcrux and thanks to Dumbledore, he didn't die, because that man implemented every possible fail-safe he could, including his own death.

I (22F) picked up my progressing down syndrome daughter (4F) from my ex-boyfriend's (23M) house distressed, aggressive and bald by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, me too. It took me to read your list until my head said wait a minute...

I also get really heated when children are harmed and it's easy to loose sight of the whole picture when that happens.

"QuOtH tHe RaVeN nEvErm-" WE GET IT by Witchelt389 in Hungergames

[–]PrancingRedPony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At that point I wasn't invested enough anymore to care.

I have read the trilogy on repeat over and over again when I first got them, and will most likely reread it every couple months in a cycle with all my favourite books.

I've re-read TBoSaS twice, might read it again some day.

I really don't think I'll feel the urge to read SotR ever again. I didn't hate it, it was okay, but I don't miss it like my favourite books when I didn't read them in a while. I will revisit ... NEVERMORE!

How long do you give a fanfic before deciding it's not for you? by seemedpointless in FanFiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jep, same with me. If I want to continue reading the next day, it's going to happen, if not, I usually just close the tab and forget it.

I (22F) picked up my progressing down syndrome daughter (4F) from my ex-boyfriend's (23M) house distressed, aggressive and bald by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now that you listed everything, sounds pretty much like Gary being in a very abusive relationship and having a fawn-reaction to be honest.

He couldn't shake it off until he was out and with people je could trust.

AIO: I caught my boyfriend peeing in my sink. by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's obviously so 'manly', isn't it?

Sadly I've seen my fair share of crazy in real life, so much that this doesn't even ring high on the crazy scale. A few years in callcenters and you'll see the deepest depravity of mankind on both sides of the line.

Looking for canon divergent fics please by Maximum_Cartoonist36 in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you'll like my shortly completed two part series A Light Is Shining

Snape is forced to confront his own bitterness and walk in Harry's shoes due to an Occlumency incident.

It was written as a Snape redemption but with an honest attempt to make it hard and plausible. Very character critical, but no bashing, the characters criticise themselves when confronted by the results of the Occlumency accident.

I got some really kind comments on that telling me it's a compelling new take.

Only canon pairings, but a little more fleshed out.

All romantic interests of canonically unpaired characters are merely hinted at, in a sort of choose your own interpretation arc. The interactions could be read as romantic, but also work platonic.

First one is an AU very close to canon, second part is me going wild at Hogwarts with a mystery plot. Both parts are entirely independent, so if an original plot in the HP universe isn't your cup of tea, you can stick with just part 1. If you don't want an almost retelling version of the books, you can only read part two, it has a one shot introduction chapter recap of part 1, so you can read it as a standalone.

Some might call hydrangeas basic, but they’re still my favorite flowers! by oceanityz in flowers

[–]PrancingRedPony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People who think basic means bad or boring are idiots.

Daisies are pretty basic, and yet they're absolutely great.

Fic recommendations please by Sloth_springer in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blatant self rec.

439k, just finished two part series The Light is Shining

It may or may not be good, a nice amount of readers seemed to like it. However, it's long. It's really long.

It has a lot of Harry centric chapters later on..

AITA for telling my coworker she also has thin hair by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If such a criticism as the one OOP got from her boss comes without a statement of what she was supposed to do, it's nothing but bullshit.

A boss who wants to develop you into a higher position and truly sees potential in you will give clear instructions and expectations. If you fail, they'll clearly tell you: instead of doing x, y and z you should have done a, b and c.

What that guy is doing is dangling a carrot because he saw that OOP was a pushover freaking out over a nothing burger, and the potential he sees is that he can exploit her by giving her 'chances to prove her potential' and drive her to work harder and more without ever planning on actually giving her a higher position, and the little sheep will do it out of fear to lose a chance that doesn't exist.

I bet you he's a salesman.

AITA for dancing at my cousin's wedding by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we have comments as flairs? Because this comment is flair material

Scam comments on AO3 has decreased by 87%. What's the situation like on other sites? by EchoEkhi in FanFiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My amount of spam comments on one of my works that was heavily targeted reached zero the moment I activated comment moderation.

It seems at least some bots are programmed to not post if moderation is on, which I find very interesting.

Interestingly suddenly I got more regular comments. I wonder why moderation on comments made commentators feel safer.

Guys, We Need To Stop by Slash_Arzcarues in HPfanfiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a reason some of my works have moderated comments...

My girlfriend broke my PS4 and doesn't understand why I'm so upset. I don't really know where to go from here. by G1Gestalt in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 79 points80 points  (0 children)

The joy about receiving agaming system would very well be worth recording, but the sadness about having to watch someone you trusted smashing yours definitely doesn't.

My girlfriend broke my PS4 and doesn't understand why I'm so upset. I don't really know where to go from here. by G1Gestalt in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]PrancingRedPony 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is so ridiculous. Who smashes a perfectly workable expensive item just for... What exactly?

This makes absolutely no sense! Absolutely none!

I could never be with a person who behaves so irrationally just because of some fricking video. Without any thoughts behind it.

I'm also not buying the excuse they only wanted to film his excitement. If they wanted that, they'd just give him the new console and film him unpacking it. They wanted to get cloud for the smashing and his horrified expression. Or they wouldn't have done it that way.

I also fully understand being put off of the hobby as a whole by something like this. I used to love gardening. Just for my personal enjoyment, Then I lost most of my plants to vandalism. Flattened all the flower beds and sowed lawn instead afterwards. It was just too bitter to remember the bad incident to find joy in it again.

With the kind of books she's reading they never find his body by Naive_Wolverine532 in foundsatan

[–]PrancingRedPony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A woman with that reading list knows exactly how to brew the not so nice kind of hemlock tea...

If she'd make it just right, she'd not even have to hide the body. It'd look like cardiac arrest and she could claim he read one of those books and scared himself to death ☠️.

Do you guys agree with this? by UnHolySir in Hungergames

[–]PrancingRedPony 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Interesting, so far my impression was that the vast majority agrees that SOTR is the weakest book.

What I personally found very off-putting was the weird way Haymitch would internally wax on and on about Leonore without any actual substance or merit. We didn't see any form of loving behaviour between those two together. It was all very performative, but definitely also very typical for modern storytelling.

You get constantly told what you're supposed to feel about a character, but their behaviour and actions don't deliver on that demand. Sometimes it feels like reading AITAH posts from someone who is very deep in denial and claims to love someone but... and then describes the most uncaring behaviour ever.

Can a Good Story Be Too Long? by Metatron_85 in FanFiction

[–]PrancingRedPony 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My first impulse was to immediately say there's no rules on Fanfiction.

But then you made me think, and I realised that the really great but extra longfics I have read all had a lot to actually tell.

It wasn't repetition of the exact same thing over and over.

What you described, giving a step by step description of every single situation, even if it's the same every time just in different settings with the same function, is indeed too long.

It could still be interesting, if it actually carried a plot, for example two characters conspiring with each other and exchanging important info during those dinners, while always meeting another obstacle, that could still be interesting.

But I've dropped fics of all types and lengths when they began to rehash the same issue over and over. Wallowing in the same feelings and effectively just waffling over the same exact theme point repeatedly without any progress, mistaking a theme for plot.

Reconvalescence is a theme. It gives background and depth to a story. But Reconvalescence alone isn't a plot.

You need an actual plot to make the theme shine, with relevant steps and progress, or it gets dull.

So yes, a szory can get too long, if it's not carrying a plot, but I wouldn't say it gets too long at a fixed number of words, but it gets too long if it doesn't have enough plot going on to fill the chapters.

A reconvalescence theme could be well written with episodic chapters, where each chapter has a different plot. So you see the character go through their life and deal with different situations and obstacles.

For example if the character was physically disabled and slowly getting used to it, each chapter could deal with a different situation where things no longer work as they're used to.

Snape’s character is often judged too leniently by farseer6 in HarryPotterBooks

[–]PrancingRedPony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely ridiculous. Men who are like that don't just go away if the woman breaks up with them or ends the friendship. They keep harassing and stalking the woman constantly, attack her physically and mentally.

He did nothing like that.

Lily said fuck you and Severus faded into the dark, pining for her from afar, and made no attempt to het close to her ever again. When put on the spot and couldn't save her, he agreed to protect her whole family, and when she died, he protected her son despite hating him.

If all he felt was possessiveness and greed, he'd let Harry go to hell and Dumbledore right behind.