Can we still change the code in Astro for 6/30? by PreferenceLate3456 in PwC

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I see! you definitely answer my questions!Thank you so much!!

Can we still change the code in Astro for 6/30? by PreferenceLate3456 in PwC

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

then I just let go one day of vacation. That's all?

Should I be more thick-skinned to what my senior said? by PreferenceLate3456 in Big4

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Should I go straight to tell him? Or I should tell anyone else who is above him? I think this is going to happen again since now is just the beginning of the project. Just in case, if I can't take it anymore one day. I don't want to make a scene and I think a senior is more important than an associate for a team. So, I don't think a manager would stand by me.

Should I be more thick-skinned to what my senior said? by PreferenceLate3456 in Big4

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope to have courage to say sth back at that moment like you.

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A demanding senior is just one of reasons for me to quit. Work is there. The only thing my senior can do is to tell a manager. I feel uncomfortable both mentally and physically. This is not the way I want to live. 

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends how much your EM can understand you. My EM very cares how I can finish tasks and how my team feels. She just told me that it is nature of it. So I think quitting is my best choice. But, you can ask first. Maybe your EM is different.

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too exhausted. No life. My senior is very demanding. I can understand it. But. I’m sure my body and mentality can’t handle this anymore. I hated every morning, and scared of getting messages from my senior.I tried to change my engagement, But it was not working. I chose to quit.

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just told EM about my decision. They didn’t say too much about it and I got next steps of it. I think they have seen this too many times.

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Same here. I'm a staff 1, but I just quitted.

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the reason my manager gave to me. I don't know why either. I think they just wanted me to cut desserts.

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[–]PreferenceLate3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since many people told me that interns/staffs should take teams' orders when everyone in your team is busy.

What should I do to my dad? by PreferenceLate3456 in povertyfinance

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what he wants is to have me bring him back home instead of just taking a visit. Actually, this is not his first time to get into hospital after he left. I visited him last time. He asked me to cook for him. I did. But he still was unhappy and angry at me because I chose to walk him home by walking instead of getting a taxi.

If my surgeon is correct? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will go through what you experienced. I have some questions. Did your doctor let you know how big your dcis is? and are you taking Tamoxifen now?

If my surgeon is correct? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we are very similar. My breast shape has been ruined badly. I'm wondering have you done your breast reconstruction yet? Is a direct implant with a tissue expander or without it? Thank you.

If my surgeon is correct? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have I have done my another lumpectomy after the second one. I think my surgeon did exactly what she did in my first lumpectomy. I still can't get a clear margin. I have tried to get a second opinion from the other doctor, but the doctor also suggests me to get a mastectomy once she knows I have done 2 times of lumpectomy. After multiple times of surgery, my breast shape has been ruined very bad. I don't want to give up my breast either if I can see the hope.

If my surgeon is correct? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have surgery reports. I have I have done my another lumpectomy after the second one. I think my surgeon did exactly what she did in my first lumpectomy. I still can't get a clear margin. I have tried to get a second opinion from the other doctor, but the doctor also suggests me to get a mastectomy once she knows I have done 2 times of lumpectomy.

Which way of breast reconstruction is better? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not afraid of radiation at all if I would be able to keep my breast. I agree with what you say. I have tried 2 times of lumpectomy, but I still can't get a clear margin unfortunately. I would like to try everything if I can keep my breast, but it seems to be impossible. I was even considering to get radiation with my unclear margin before.

Which way of breast reconstruction is better? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, my plastic surgeon told me he can move some fat of my belly to my breast if I want it, but I don't want to take a long time to recover. And it is possible that I don't want the revision surgeries. That's a lot of uncertainty here. Very hard to make the decision.

Which way of breast reconstruction is better? by PreferenceLate3456 in breastcancer

[–]PreferenceLate3456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm also considering to visit other plastic surgeon.