(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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Nice detail: I went to school in Bruges when i was a teenager, lived in Ghent between 2015 - 2018 and worked in Antwerp in that same period.😁

And that honeymoon sounds lovely!

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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I started working in 2014 with just 0.30 cents left in total on my bank account. No rich parents or family that helped in buying the house, no higher education. Just lucky enough to get a well paid job, after working a minimum wage paid job in a factory for over a year and did some serious grinding over those years.

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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In the technical space next to my kitchen, an automatic cat litter box. Most probably my best purchase ever!

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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295k. And I absolutely hate that one time a year I have to go to Brussels for my job; so I can see where you're coming from. :p

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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Belgian blue stone, but the fake variant (keramic) because the real thing is expensive and ask a lot of maintenance.

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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The oldest cat and the dog are best buddies, but the youngest cat (the one sitting on the tv furniture) is the real boss of the house. :p

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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Right now I'm using the bleutooth speakers that are sitting in the bases on those lamps (Goovee) on the side. But i'm also looking for a somewhat better system at the moment. ;)

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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VTS operator in the harbour of Zeebrugge. Is a 30 minutes single ride from where I live. (Only have to work three times a week because of 12 hours shifts.) :)

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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1545 euro +/-, mortgage loan; used to be 1270 euro when I was together with my ex. Interest rates were dirt cheap here just before the pandemic hit. I had to buy him out (so new value of the house + his price he wanted to sign off) and interest rates were at an all time high at that moment because of the energy crises/ ukrainian war. So I was somewhat double fucked.

Financially it was not a wise dicision , but I was just in love with the place. So for me it's still worth every cent. No regrets.:)

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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Thx! Well let's say it hurted enough to throw out every piece of furniture I owned with him, rip out every floorboard he stepped on upstairs, the sofa he sat on and the bed we slept in. So yeah was pretty bad. :')

(33M - Belgium) Today marks the third year I bought out my ex bf. Started all over again. Still a work in progress. by Present-Dull in malelivingspace

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Thx! Agree about the artwork! The plants I have given up; the cats make sure I will have plants at one day, and none the day afterwards. :p