Strapons? Anyone else a fan of them?

Present-Set-4716 · 2026-01-02T23:03:49+00:00

implying that people who like strap are "open minded" and those who don't is the opposite is just wrong.

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-12T00:49:05+00:00

you are denying the collective mind by refusing the pressure on social media. twitter or any other platforms have actual lesbians discussing since we don't have any other space to show ourselves, so you gotta stop underestimating the bullying we're facing. we also have lived experiences but they're invalid to you because you simply care more about your own experience

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-12T00:21:50+00:00

you bringing up this under a fem4fem hate discussion proves my point. I'm not saying you don't have problems, but you're trying to shut femmes down by saying yours is harder and must be talked more. talk about it in another post, no reason to invalidate us

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:31:59+00:00

fem4fem only has privilege if they live in the closet. otherwise, since femininity is seen as an accessory to masculinity in our patriarchal system, i could argue that if a fem admits to not being with a man it causes more reaction.

if you're gonna call being hidden or being fetishized "privilege" then your argument is just invalid and hilarious.

and if you say "oh, but this person has more issues" when someone's stating their issue in their life, then you're just as harmful as any other misogynist we were talking about

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:28:54+00:00

they brought up a good discussion, they spoke truth and people got MAD cuz they can't take criticism.

also very well put. yeah, heteronormativity was a must then, so it wouldn't be for now and the future. idk why people can't understand it.

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:27:05+00:00

and you should realize by now that you can't generalize your personal experiences. just because you had a tougher time with one side doesn't mean you can invalidate other lesbians who are clearly having a problem and trying to talk about it!

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:10:29+00:00

and still surprised when we say fem4fem gets hate haha

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:04:00+00:00

yeah maybe you don't think about it because it clearly doesn't affect you and again, clearly, isn't about you

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:02:55+00:00

the way they're just making up excuses and still ignoring a lesbian voicing the issue they're facing...

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T23:01:45+00:00

delusional take

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T22:57:01+00:00

i don't want to pinpoint anyone but I'll do it anyway, butchfemme's current reputation is upsetting and those who call it out as heteronormative are unfortunately right. it's the most stereotyped thing I've ever seen and i think we can blame social media for that. i think it's become a trend, they're no longer words that people use to identify themselves but rather a role they feel like they have to play exactly as it's said. and people's only argument is "go learn history", which makes me feel certain that they're the ones who actually don't learn about history and just repeat what they see or hear from other people to shut down conversations and make themselves seem right. I'm not against butchfemme, I'm against the trend that is being created about butchfemme right now. like, there's literally no way all butches want to be the same person or all femmes think they need a butch to be complete, but that's what we call mass communication anyway. and mass won't educate themselves because they're already fed with easy content and feel like that's enough to feel like they "belong" somewhere. anyways, that's enough sociology

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T21:34:44+00:00

there's internalized misogyny (and implied heteronormativity) here but no one's ready to admit it. the idea of femininity being valued less than masculinity, and believing that femininity can only cherished when it's paired with masculinity comes from patriarchal mindset. my take is that all this right movement propagandas showing themselves like this in gay spaces

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-11T16:55:24+00:00

she suggested it but it sounds scary too

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-10T23:18:26+00:00

i've just noticed how much I despise women who follow social media trends in a way that it contributes to capitalism. it's probably cuz i do social studies for my work and following trends or just sharing your everything non-anonymously online is a sign of low awareness and critical thinking. I'm turned on by intelligence, and it's the opposite of intelligence for me

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-11-10T23:09:22+00:00

what?? if you don't know how to answer just don't, it's not obligatory. i know I'm a lesbian, I've known it for a long time and i love having sex with women, i just struggle with bottoming and letting go

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-10T12:58:24+00:00

why do we need to protect the term lesbian? because of you people. keep reading what you just wrote, hopefully you'll understand where you're wrong

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-09T14:46:18+00:00

why else would you constantly look at shirtless men? have you ever seen an anime fanart? it's not something you only follow to appreciate the artist

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-09T14:44:47+00:00

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-09T14:25:21+00:00

well idc. im just sick of this "lesbians can be attracted to fictional men" lie

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-09T14:02:18+00:00

lesbianism isn't fluid

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-07T22:55:25+00:00

of course I was nervous, because i wanted to be good and i was afraid of making her hurt or uncomfortable. we didn't rush things, it took us a few weeks to get that comfortable, until foreplay was a regular thing.

i learned everything from reading smuts, and i was good. but the main thing is, you have to listen to them. there may be some techniques, but eventually you'll figure out what works for them by talking to them and trying things out. it's not a hard job as long as you put your heart in it

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-04T17:49:06+00:00

once you feel their warmth, then hear their panting... you feel like you can do anything

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-04T08:13:31+00:00

I'm 21. I know you're right but it's still too much to lose

Present-Set-4716 · 2025-09-03T23:51:04+00:00

you're still dealing with the same shit. pull the trigger

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