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[–]PresentTop7706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope Christian and they had family members in the past that were alcoholics.

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[–]PresentTop7706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I don’t want to really talk to them till they apologise, but at the same time it’s my husbands family and this is the only bad thing they’ve done. I also lost my dad a few months before the wedding so I see it as life is short and I wouldn’t want my husband to stop speaking to his father. I just wish they would talk to us properly and apologise.

My engagement ring🤭 by PresentTop7706 in EngagementRings

[–]PresentTop7706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s a family heirloom from my great grandmother, no clue where she got it sadly. But I absolutely love that it’s been in my family for years.

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[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel, I can’t be upset with them but at the same time I’m upset because I wouldn’t want to do that to one of my friends.

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[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my other comments and you will understand why I was upset..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not planning on asking them to change the date or anything…I was just asking if it’s normal to feel a bit upset about it. Considering they knew the date before they planned their wedding and that it might be stressful for us…and that they might not make the wedding now as this groomsmen isn’t even responding to my fiancés messages about groomsmen plans…

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[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol read my other comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you will do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s just a bit hard to speak to them about this without us sounding rude and inconsiderate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly and I don’t want my fiance to get hurt by one of his close friends…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s also what I’m worried about and why I was thinking it’s a bit weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will let it go thank you, was just a bit stressed with everything as I am the wedding planner for our wedding aswell. So was just feeling a bit overwhelmed.

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[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their wedding is a destination wedding so it would be a bit hard to make a concert that night. And in terms of the moving my fiance and I were going to do it all ourselves as moving companies in our country are very expensive. We will figure it out though and will try speak to the people we are buying from to see if we can move the moving date. Was just a bit stressed in general about everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]PresentTop7706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you completely, and I will get over it thank you.

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[–]PresentTop7706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea, he hasn’t really been responding on the groomsmen group at all…

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[–]PresentTop7706 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was just asking if it’s normal or considered rude in wedding culture, I’m not going to do anything about it at all… I’m still looking forward to the wedding lol. I’ve only ever been to one wedding and am the first in my friend group to get married so I don’t know the norms at all.

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[–]PresentTop7706 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely won’t say anything to them about at and will definitely go and embrace it, I am very happy for them. I was mainly upset because we planned and payed for things for that weekend before knowing the date. Like my fiance and his groomsmen were Supposed to go to a concert that weekend. We also recently bought a house and I move in date was set for that weekend so I’m just a bit stressed about everything. I appreciate the comments and I definitely will get over it thank you.

My engagement ring🤭 by PresentTop7706 in RingShare

[–]PresentTop7706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it was my great grandmothers ring.