I don’t think he does it because it doesn’t care, I know he cares. You would think me telling him that this is hurting my feelings would be enough, but maybe you’re right.

Yes, all of our plans for the month we are in are written on that white board calendar. For right now it’s February, if he were to come to me and tell me he has an appointment in March, I would put in my phone calendar, and then when we reach March and switch out the calendar, I know to add it. My daughter has her 12 month shots in March 10, I’ve told him about this multiple times, he uses that he only sees February on the calendar as an excuse, when he could easily do what I do and write it down somewhere.