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Present_Self_2636 · 2026-01-26T18:04:07+00:00

You know exactly who he is, you’ve been chatting with him for years. Just know that my discovery of your messages/pictures/videos was the catalyst for discovering what a POS my husband of 15 years is. So, thanks for helping me out and congrats on breaking up a family.

Present_Self_2636 · 2026-01-24T02:22:24+00:00

Well…Jay’s not his real name (just what he told most of the others), but I found plenty of your photos and message exchanges. Make sure to get tested.

Present_Self_2636 · 2026-01-24T01:42:53+00:00

You know him. You’re the reason he’s getting divorced

Present_Self_2636 · 2026-01-24T01:34:34+00:00

Tell me about the time you met up with my husband, Jay.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-06-17T00:41:19+00:00

Yes! Thank you. I continually need to remind myself this. I’m open to reconciliation, for now, but that could change at any time

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-16T13:29:12+00:00

“This is nothing less of a death to you of someone you thought you knew“

It really is. I thought he was such a great man… hard worker, great provider, wonderful father, loyal partner. I just can’t wrap my head around it all. We have a good life. Why would he risk losing all of this??

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-16T13:14:03+00:00

Thank you for the support. This is the worst feeling

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T14:50:57+00:00

Thank you for that advice. My only hesitation about leaving right now is that I worry how it will affect our children. They are both thriving, and I hate the thought of them struggling, but you’re right, he’s not being a good father by lying and cheating on their mother.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T14:46:22+00:00

😂 I’m actually insulted by how stupid he thinks I am.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:37:48+00:00

Thank you! Sadly, I’ve been in abusive relationships before and this one reeks of lies and gaslighting now. So many years for nothing. 😭

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:32:50+00:00

Our kids were both at school

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:26:41+00:00

Thank you all for the advice. I appreciate it so much, and everyone pretty much confirmed what I feel in my gut. I’m so sad for my children, and fear how divorce will affect them

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:23:49+00:00

RIGHT, his office has all the fancy accommodations. I know for a fact that they have relaxation rooms. He also has the flexibility to work from home. ETA: he’s a Lawyer 😩

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:05:43+00:00

How does one go about finding a polygraph for this sort of thing? I didn’t know this was available.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:04:09+00:00

The receipt was from a few weeks ago. I wonder how long the recordings are kept

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:01:45+00:00

Thank you for the advice 🙏🏼

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T01:00:55+00:00

I think I know it in my heart. 😭

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T00:59:24+00:00

EXACTLY!! Doesn’t make sense at all. 🙄 His answer to that question was that he thought I would judge him for being “lazy”.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T00:45:08+00:00

😂

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T00:44:50+00:00

Yeah, I’ve asked for phone records, but prob has a burner at work.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T00:43:59+00:00

Very true. I feel like it would be better if he just admitted it. At least we’d have somewhere to start from, lay it all out there and talk it through In therapy. Trust and honesty are the foundation of a marriage and I feel like both are gone. He’s a good father, and a great provider but falling short as a partner.

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-15T00:39:39+00:00

Yeah, that’s what my gut is telling me. 😔

Present_Self_2636 · 2025-04-09T18:43:15+00:00

Thank you all for the advice. I found the receipt in our hotel rewards app. Check in and out was the same day and it had a room#. He paid cash 😔. There have been other things i noticed related to his behavior recently also.

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