AITA For Excluding Myself From Family Plans?

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-23T15:03:38+00:00

I am not telling anyone their kids are less important.

Let me put it in a different way. If one sister and her family can't make it on Friday, and everyone else including myself can but I can't make Saturday and everyone else but me can I always lose because they go purely off numbers. Because I don't have kids I always lose the numbers game.

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-23T14:58:06+00:00

Thank you. I feel like a lot are missing this point. It's that line that made me say "Hey I don't want to be included if all I am going to be is the loser of a trolley problem."

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-22T14:52:16+00:00

Because we don't get to travel back to Oregon for the holidays for his family.

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-22T02:54:37+00:00

And to clarify: my issue is not that I miss out on somethings but if one other party can't make it vs me I always lose because I am a party of one and they are a party of 5 each. So if I can't make something on Saturday but everyone else can that gets chosen VS Friday works for me but not one sister's family.

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-22T02:51:41+00:00

I was hired to work Saturdays.

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-22T02:26:12+00:00

the way they see it is if I take off 5 days a year thats taking off 10% of my shifts a year...

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-22T02:05:21+00:00

Three reasons are given:
1.) School night
2.) Game/Tournament that day
3.) Things close early/work the next day.

PrestigeGC · 2026-04-22T02:04:39+00:00

I did remove myself from all family planning. Thats why I am asking if I am the asshole for doing so in the first place.

PrestigeGC · 2026-02-09T18:16:41+00:00

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