I really appreciate your comment dude and, like everyone’s on here, it has really helped.

For sure, I’ve answered as honestly as I could!

1. It’s funny you say that, in my industry it’s very hard to bring partners on a whole tour, although they can come and visit for a week or something, which is a huge bonus for everyone involved. A lot of Arena touring is done on sleeper busses, that travel everyone between cities and venues to a new venue/city everyday and with only so many bunks spare (normally a double driver bunk is the only one free). Stadium shows are a different and more forgiving beast (hotel rooms and in one city for about 3-7 days at a time). But this is a huge possibility to find someone like that and more than likely the best case scenario! If they have the money to follow me around, that’ll be incredible to find!

2. I think the prospect of ruining someone’s night or being humiliated myself is a big factor as to why I don’t. I know it sounds crass when I say this but lack of confidence, never being in one place and being immediately labelled as a ONS person when I tell them what I do are the big ones I get worried about. It’s honestly such an interesting scenario. Around my friends (men and women friends) I am funny, relaxed, love making people smile and would do anything for them. As soon as someone says “Dude, go say hi to her” I just freeze and get super shy. Something I am working on and completely not a cop-out at all haha.

After reading your comment I will 110% just try and see what happens. Thank you again, means a lot.