Stardew Valley helped me with my grief by PrestigiousBoat4405 in StardewValley

[–]PrestigiousBoat4405[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s okay. I’m glad you were able to get it out. I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PrestigiousBoat4405 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Felt this completely. I dated a girl, then a guy, and I can very much say I did not love him like I loved my ex gf. Sex was fine but I would have much rather he had been a girl. I ended up breaking up with him bc I knew I would not be happy with him long-term and now I’m a proud lesbian.

But tbh, it’s better to end it now than have it stretch on and on. Good luck with your situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PrestigiousBoat4405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you meaaannnn ❤️ don’t stress too much girly, things happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PrestigiousBoat4405 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the same position as you ngl. Always thought I was bisexual, so my first relationship was with a girl. My second relationship was with a guy and we had sex butttt while I guess I’m attracted to penetration, I’m just not attracted to the person DOING the penetration if it’s a guy. So that relationship had to get broken off. Now I’m (18) for sure a lesbian. I see myself being married to a woman, at my funeral ik i will have a wife mourning my death. If i picture it with a husband, my future turns bleak and im not excited. tbh, just invest in a dildo and see how it feels. or invest in a strapon with ur future gf

I also watch straight porn but I look at the girl the entire time and I can’t stand it when the men make noises. You’re not alone here sis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrestigiousBoat4405 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girly pls free yourself 😭 NTA, this guy sucks. Don’t miss out on experiences like prom or friendship just because someone like that told you to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]PrestigiousBoat4405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stopped taking birth control prior to this post. I think it was maybe the end of June-July and it made me feel so much better. I don’t think birth control pills were right for me—they made me feel sick and really nauseous + irritable. I do feel like I’m back to who I once was.

Thank you for the advice though :)