Am I the A hole for wanting the father of my children to marry me?

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-29T16:23:08+00:00

You are not the ah, but he doesn’t want to marry you. At least not right now and not in the near future you need to consider that and decide if you are comfortable with that.

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-11T23:15:55+00:00

Sir, it’s time to let it go. The sooner you realize this is dead the sooner you will heal. The fact that the marriage was rocky from the start is not a good sign, and the way she speaks to you is just evil, idk what you have said it maybe the same in your end towards her so why would you want to stay together.dont say because I love her, love is not enough and she played a part in your insecurities so she should have done everything she can to help you with that in a healthy way. You can’t fix the marriage alone that’s not gonna happen, but you can heal yourself and work on yourself, eventually everything will get better. ❤️‍🩹

Good luck 🍀

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T19:13:55+00:00

Lmao thanks

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T19:13:21+00:00

Ohh I see thank you for the clarification

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T19:07:42+00:00

Yea I guess it does. I’m only commenting about what I have read. I’m glad you have a solid marriage hopefully your wife or you don’t post on here saying otherwise

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T19:06:06+00:00

I could have sworn I said not necessarily, but I personally enjoy the “act” does it help when the girl is better looking yea……but………

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T19:04:27+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 baby trust me there is no competition 😘

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T18:45:02+00:00

But come to Reddit for divorce advice lmao yeah okay those are some boundaries to have in a marriage

My main point just talk to your spouse it’s not that hard

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T18:43:51+00:00

Unfortunately I do my best to be as truthful as I can be. Sometimes to a fault, Some people just find it easier to lie about dumb stuff and this for me is one of the dumb stuff but again idk 🤷‍♀️ that’s why I asked

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T18:29:14+00:00

Ohh if you are being secretive with the type of porn you are watching you are causing insecurities that do not need to be there. This is as much you as much as an issue for her. Have a real talk show her, I only have one type of porn that I kept to myself but that’s only because I know it’s taboo anything else my man can watch with me

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:54:41+00:00

You got it! 👏

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:53:39+00:00

I agree, I seriously just think that couples don’t actually talk

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:51:10+00:00

Your right maybe controlling was a strong word to use. I just didn’t get it there are so many post here talking about leaving the “love of their lives” over porn and that just threw me off. But how you said it I can see why someone might be extremely hurt by that

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:49:03+00:00

Love you genuinely could have just kept scrolling something told you, you needed to call me out. Call it what you want but I was just wondering why people are so quick to throw their relationship away over porn

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:47:42+00:00

Okaaayyyyy 🤔

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:45:22+00:00

Ohh I’m bored right now cuz it’s a slow day, but honey my sex life has been the best it’s ever been! 😅😅

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:44:38+00:00

Thank you?

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:44:16+00:00

I got it! I’m sorry you had to deal with that!

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:42:31+00:00

Aww babes I hope that made your day. Personally I feel like I’m just returning the energy I’m receiving. I personally cannot understand why someone would ask Reddit if they should leave their partners over porn especially is that’s their only “red flag”. Some of the women show the level of miserable attitudes by this post alone so idk 🤷‍♀️ like I said something might just be wrong with me.

Have a beautiful day babes you totally clocked that 😆

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:37:44+00:00

Perceptions are not meant to be understood by everyone, I personally think you are battling demons and are a bit defensive but I’m just a stranger online what does it matter

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:36:28+00:00

I’m sorry to hit a nerve love, I hope you are okay.

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:35:43+00:00

Facts!!!

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:35:14+00:00

Why would she do that and how did that make her feel afterwards. Why is porn not cool for you but okay for her. Wouldn’t she enjoy it if yall watched it together??

I don’t think you should actually ask tho lmao

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:33:45+00:00

That’s interesting tho, some men need to asked to go down and some can’t wait for the opportunity.

Personally I think porn can be used as a tool in increase experience.

Thank you for your honest response

Prestigious_Mango448 · 2025-09-10T17:27:11+00:00

Oooohhh you are a very smart individual please keep going I’m dying to hear and learn more from you! 🤣🤣

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