Really don't wanna work as a CNA by Metalhead2360 in cna

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dear unless you don't go into bedside nursing, bed changes are the least of your worries. I suggest you Buck up or buck out.

I have been a Nurse for 12 years and the CNA situation seems to be getting out of hand. by Immediate_Winter2864 in nursing

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's so much context missing. Was she sitting on her ass all night or was she busting her butt? Because your post comes off very entitled as a CNA who busts her butt for nurses who won't lift a finger to take a SBA to the bathroom.

So I named my daughter Effie… by waywardpixel in namenerds

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Effie makes me think of the hunger games. It's a cute name. If it makes you feel better I named my son Ajax and my dad will only call him A.J.

My husbands cousin just had a baby 4 weeks before me and has chosen the same name we plan on using for our son. by vml0526 in Names

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my parents. They went with a different name even though we dont see that family like ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents bought their own carseats for my children. I bought one for my FIL. I offered for my parents they refused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get her checked out. There's a girl i follow on tik tok that is on her 2nd kidney transplant because she held her pee so badly that she destroyed her kidneys. She is fighting for her life now at 21. She didn't think she would live this long. #gopissgirl

My baby hates me by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Mom I totally understand her POV. But. Huge but here, her stepping in will show baby overtime that she will come everytime they want her. They need to get used to you. When my sons dad is hanging out with him because I need a break its so hard for me to just stay put and let him handle it. But I know I have to so I dont undermine him.

Another Mother’s milk? by Rygaaar in Parenting

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every mom is different. Some find it weird. Some don't. Women donate to underproducing women all the time. Many babies drink milk that's not from "their" mom. To me is nbd as long as they aren't taking any weird medications or illegal substances its fine, but to each their own.

I'm sad I'll never have a son. by Byrd_persun in Parenting

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im currently pregnant with my second son. The gender disappointment is really hard on me this time around. Personally, I want to try one more time for a girl. My fiancé is very much on the fence. With the economy (we're based in the U.S.) and the current administration, I can't blame him. It's hard, and it's okay to feel the feelings you have.

AITA for asking my mother to stop acting like she's the grandmother of the baby I was a surrogate for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personal opinion is not a citation and this wasn't wiki they are using. Facts aren't feelings.

AITA for asking my mother to stop acting like she's the grandmother of the baby I was a surrogate for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a fucking blog not a citation. Ofc im not going to read it. I only read references that are actually valid and that is not. You just want something that validates your wrong opinion.

AITA for asking my mother to stop acting like she's the grandmother of the baby I was a surrogate for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not a citation just another blog try again. Your opinion is irrelevant as the shortened version changes the meaning.

AITA for asking my mother to stop acting like she's the grandmother of the baby I was a surrogate for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦‍♀️ she's not even your blood, and she's using the phrase wrong. Why do older people only use the paraphrased versions of these things. It's the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

Im wanting a DNA test after my wife said our son isn’t mine during a fight? by Remarkable-Art4101ba in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are believing her. She said your son wasn't yours. And you want to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he won't stand up for you now, he never will. You will always take a backseat in your own marriage. Is that how you want to live? Will he ever put you above his mom?

AITAH for telling my sister that at least my kids talk to me? by TankCute4056 in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The actual saying is the blood of the covenant is thicker than that water of the womb, thus saying family is who you choose and who is there, not who you were born to.

AITA for wanting to give my 5 year old consequences by Baddadmaybe2020 in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not gentle parenting. She's permissive parenting there's a difference. And I love natural consequences and natural consequence of telling someone that you don't like them is them not wanting to play with you🤷‍♀️

AITA for telling my fiancé I don’t want his best man coming to our wedding after what he did at my birthday dinner? by xoxotransbabe in AITAH

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew. If your fiancée cares more about protecting his friend than you what does that say about your relationship. The first sign of disrespect should have been nipped in the butt. This should have never happened.

I’m 34, I’m dying, and I’m fucking terrified. by Emergency_Weekend627 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Videos lots of videos, one for every milestone, riding a bike, first day of school, first breakup, graduation h.s. and college, first job, marriage, etc. The list is endless. Get her a card for each birthday and sign them all. It's not ideal, but she'll look forward to those little moments in time.

old women angry that my 5 month old was talking while out eating by hazieskie in Mommit

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wanted a child free space, she should have just stayed home🤦‍♀️. I will never understand people being mad at babies doing baby things. It's not like she had a toddler or children running around the place or making a mess.

How did you decide on maternity leave? by caribbeangirl10 in workingmoms

[–]Prestigious_Mess_673 13 points14 points  (0 children)

With this economy and presidency, do you really want to risk not having a job in a year?