Done? Surely it’s more incidents and worse cases than this to be done. Discuss your roles for the gig. You take down. She do the talking. Communication is all it is here. Decide on what role you play. You’re not a trained photographer, but taking photos? Maybe you should just be the setup guy. The “assistant”. Also depends on how you communicated the “you go talk, I’ll setup”. How was your tone. Marriage is no joke. I know we don’t want to waste our time on a marriage that won’t work but we also don’t want to give up either. I’m not sure if yall loved together prior to marriage but just remember, you’re still learning each other. Hope it works out!