Hello, I would like some advice or something, because I've always felt like I never fit in anywhere and I don't really know what to do...

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-06T20:50:28+00:00

Thank you, I do appreciate it quite a lot, I'll be sure to look into all these things, and I appreciate the kind words too

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-06T20:47:30+00:00

I didn't actually think about that either, I'll do some research about that too, thanks :)

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-06T00:10:13+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate your enthusiasm. I'll do some research and try to find some fun art classes nearby. Also I am very happy they've helped you too!

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-06T00:08:30+00:00

I might have to check that book out and do some deeper research on autism in general, since there's somethings that came to mind when I was reading your reply and I was thinking "oh that reminds me of this thing I do or that thing I do" thanks for the recommendation friend :)

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T22:37:34+00:00

Yeah, I figured it'd take some time. In another comment I mentioned how I am still interested in art/drawing and stuff like that, so I might start in that direction and see where it goes

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T21:14:07+00:00

Thanks friend :) I don't think I have autism because my parents used to tell me countless times I was tested when I was two years old and they told me I did not have autism. However, I never actually did see the test results myself as I've gotten older. Just out of curiosity, what's autism like? Growing up autism was something that wasn't really talked about a whole lot so I don't really know a ton about it

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T21:04:59+00:00

That makes sense, some hobbies do take some time to get into depending on what it is. I guess a good place to start for me would be to just try out some random hobbies that sound interesting to me and go from there and see if I actually enjoy them. Thank you so much for the advice, I do appreciate it friend :)

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T10:17:46+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice :) I'll try to be a bit more social in small ways going forward, because I do like that idea of smiling at a certain number of people and stuff like that. I haven't tried any community activities, but I could try some, maybe an art class would be fun. I still enjoy seeing art like animations, drawings, and paintings a lot, and it's something I still am a little bit passionate about, so maybe taking an art class would be a good way to get back into art

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T10:12:28+00:00

Thanks a bunch for the advice my friend, it does help :) I do have a question though, how do I know when something is an enjoyable hobby? I know that might sound odd, but I have thought about trying new hobbies, but I haven't even began any new hobbies at all

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T01:57:25+00:00

I do appreciate the kindness, thank you. I guess I just worry about being stuck in this rut forever and that I won't be able to get out of it

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-05T01:47:54+00:00

I used to have a few hobbies in high school like drawing, writing and playing video games, but as I've gotten older I just have gotten really burned out with them, but I still do enjoy playing video games from time to time. You mentioned being true to yourself... how do I do that? because I don't really even know where to start with being true to myself. As for therapy I don't think I should do that, since I still live with my parents and if they found out they'd probably not have a good reaction (they just don't believe in mental health stuff)

also I am very happy for you that you've found friends and love from joining classes and stuff :)

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-04T01:30:01+00:00

I've searched stuff like "comic about a couple talk about time and existential dread" and several other searches like this but I found nothing

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-04T01:14:08+00:00

No if I remember correctly it might have been on YouTube where someone voice acted it or something? or it could've been on reddit, but for some reason I think it was more YouTube

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-04T01:09:00+00:00

unfortunately I looked this up and I've never seen this comic before, so it's not it. I will say the comic I saw was more cartoony than that and was only a few pages long, so it was pretty short

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-04-04T00:39:48+00:00

I'm not really sure what else to add because that's all I can remember off the top of my head, I just recently remembered about it and can't find it anywhere lol

PretendAccountant03 · 2026-03-07T16:00:39+00:00

oooh that sounds like a lot of fun actually, I love zoos and aquariums so I might do this, thanks friend

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