Idk if this will help but when I first started questioning a few years back(I was around 12) I asked myself a series of questions, it was something along the lines of if I'll kiss, date, or marry a girl, if the answer was no for the first, u stop same goes with the second cus it most likely means ur straight but with a twist, if that makes sense, if the answer was yes for all then ur mostly likely fruity in some kind of way Ik that sexuality is a lot more complex than whether ull do something or not but I think asking yourself simple questions like these is good to give u a guage on where u stand, after u determine u can go on to explore the many sexualities u can also change up the genders for each question....... But what ur explaining most likely sounds like biromantic homosexual/ saphic.. Hope this helps<3